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Would you lose weight if your SO no longer found you attractive because of it? Or would you leave him

Anonymous
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Say your DH politely and honestly told you he no longer found you physically attractive after you gained 15+ pounds. Would you lose the extra pounds or say fuck him.

ETA: your SO doesnt ASK you to lose the weight, nor is he threatening to leave you or cheat on you. He is just simply being honest and communicating how he feels. The question is would YOU make an effort to lose the weight knowing this information? But he never ASKED or TOLD you too



Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:30 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:31 PM
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I would try to lose weight then i might leave him.
Lydlou02
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:32 PM
Nope. if he's got the problem he knows where the door is.
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by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:34 PM
Depends. How big am i? How did he approach it? How big is he? If my dh were to tell me that right now, id lose.
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:34 PM
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BEXi
by BEXi on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:35 PM

He would probably be ecstatic if I gained some pounds.

mommyx05
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:35 PM
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I think you should try to stay the same size as when he met you.. and I can say this because i have five kids and i still wear at my biggest size 7.  It's not hard to do:)

queencreekmom
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:36 PM

Yes I would lose weight. I do try to be attractive for him. Although I doubt he would ever complain.

Ideal_Lady
by Gold Member on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:37 PM
I'd lose weight if I ever became fat.
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crescentstar2
by Anne on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:37 PM

I took it upon myself to lose weight, it's my responsibility to look good and be healthy not just for him but for me and my kids 

CrazyLife1996
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:37 PM
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I don't have those issues. I weigh 115 now but I have weighed as much as 225 and nothing changed for him.
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