Would you lose weight if your SO no longer found you attractive because of it? Or would you leave him

[Anonymous]

Say your DH politely and honestly told you he no longer found you physically attractive after you gained 15+ pounds. Would you lose the extra pounds or say fuck him.

ETA: your SO doesnt ASK you to lose the weight, nor is he threatening to leave you or cheat on you. He is just simply being honest and communicating how he feels. The question is would YOU make an effort to lose the weight knowing this information? But he never ASKED or TOLD you too

[Anonymous]

I would try to lose weight then i might leave him.

[Lydlou02]

Nope. if he's got the problem he knows where the door is.

[Anonymous]

Depends. How big am i? How did he approach it? How big is he? If my dh were to tell me that right now, id lose.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Bump

[BEXi]

He would probably be ecstatic if I gained some pounds.

[mommyx05]

I think you should try to stay the same size as when he met you.. and I can say this because i have five kids and i still wear at my biggest size 7.  It's not hard to do:)

[queencreekmom]

Yes I would lose weight. I do try to be attractive for him. Although I doubt he would ever complain.

[Ideal_Lady]

I'd lose weight if I ever became fat.

[crescentstar2]

I took it upon myself to lose weight, it's my responsibility to look good and be healthy not just for him but for me and my kids 

[CrazyLife1996]

I don't have those issues. I weigh 115 now but I have weighed as much as 225 and nothing changed for him.