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I am SO TIRED of this...

Anonymous
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When will mothers stop judging each other? I can't take it anymore! I rarely come on Cafemom anymore because all people want to do is bash others. Does it make you feel better about yourself to tell another mother her choices are bad or wrong?

I'm not talking about women who come on and ask if it's ok to let their five year olds play violent video games, I mean if you ask, I'm going to tell you. I'm talking about the moms who come on here and post about problems they're having and ask for advice only to get bashed by all the "perfect" moms on here that want to talk about the "perfect" kids and tell you how wrong you are.  STOP IT, PLEASE!!!

Most of us are really trying the best we can.  All of us love our kids and none of us knows what the other is going through or has been through, so who the hell are we to judge and bash each other?

Take some advice from my grandmother, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all."

My grandmother not good enough for you? Then how about the golden rule - "Do(say) unto others as you would have done(said) unto you."

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:23 PM
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nerdymom28
by Ruby Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:24 PM

 Not all groups are like that. But this one is a bitch-fest; it's common knowledge by now that if you don't want your feelings hurt, MC is probably not the place for you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:25 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:25 PM
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Does it make you feel good to post in random colors?  Stop coming in the most drama filled group on CM if you don't like it.

Duh.

dbrown1989
by Gold Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:26 PM
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 This argument is old and tired, no one is forced to post, and no one is forced to comment. Why let what other people say/do bother you? My grandma always told me "if you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen".

mich.el.le
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:27 PM

Lol, says judgemental anon (about video games) in MC of all places.

The woman in the avi pic is not me, she is my inspiration.  I am a wife, a mother, and an aspiring trainer and nutritionist. I love seeing people get fit and healthy to lead the lives they are meant to live.

Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:27 PM
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Love it or leave it.

The logout button.
The X button.
The off button.

All kinds of escape routes!
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meagn3388
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:27 PM

 Welcome to Mom Confessions.

YzmaRocks
by Ruby Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:29 PM
It's human nature to judge. Some are worse than others, but we all do it to some degree or other.
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happinessforyou
by Gold Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:29 PM

If your kids wind up on the news dead, I'm judging....

nverheyn2011
by Gold Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:29 PM

My sister said something like that, but she got it from a (violent) video game "If you can't take the heat, get out of the nuclear reactor!"

Quoting dbrown1989:

 This argument is old and tired, no one is forced to post, and no one is forced to comment. Why let what other people say/do bother you? My grandma always told me "if you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen".


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