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I think a man who refuses to get a vasectomy when they don't want more kids is a selfish jerk.

Anonymous
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I mean she went through the pregnancy and birth. The least he can do is get a simple snip. Why is it on her to prevent further pregnancies? It's not fair. Agree or disagree?
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:10 PM
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raegansmom
by Platinum Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:11 PM
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 Disagree.  His body, his choice.

Raeann11
by Ruby Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:11 PM
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Disagree, it is everyone's right to choose what they want done to there body. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:11 PM
I don't really agree, but I kind of do.
purpleducky
by Ruby Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:12 PM
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I disagree. He is allowed to want to remain fertile. Just like a woman has that right. Each couple has to decide what is best for them. I had Essure done even though my wife offered to get a vasectomy because I do not trust a vasectomy.

Karenjm
by Silver Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:12 PM
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I think it's the least they can do, although, I wouldn't call my husband a selfish jerk for not doing it.  It's his body.  He could easily say I'll wear a condom.  What if he pressed you to block your tubes and you didn't want to?  Would you be a selfish jerk?

mich.el.le
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:13 PM
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On the fence.  

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itsm3
by Platinum Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:13 PM
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wtf are you talking about.  how would you like it if someone thought it was selfish of you to not get your tubes tied?

you're asking someone to have surgery.  if he didn't want to wear condoms, that's a different story but calling someone selfish for not having a vasectomy is just plain stupid.

.thatsme.
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:13 PM
I agree!
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Babujai
by Gold Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:13 PM

 I agree with this statement:

Quoting raegansmom:

 Disagree.  His body, his choice.

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twisted_charlie
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 4:13 PM

Disagree

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