If a couple had a surrogate mother, who do you throw a baby shower for *update*
the couple who's going to have the baby or the surrogate who carries the baby for 9 months?
Doesn't the surrogate deserve something?
**wow! this is the 3rd post of mine in 6 months that has been featured on the the front page of cafemom.
**why do you ladies assume that the surrogate gets paid? that's not always true.
I never got paid when I was a surrogate. Honestly, I got a thank you card and they took me out to a restaurant because that's the only thing they could afford.