My brother in law will be 25 in March. I've been with DH for 5 years now and in that 5 years he hasn't held down a job for more than a few months and then has extremely large spans of time in between jobs. He also lives with his mother in her 1 bedroom apartment (she won't let him be homeless and is a very good woman), doesn't drive, has no car etc. He recently knocked up his brand new girlfriend. She is supposed to be moving down here from Conneticut, but has to save to get moved down here. I brought him an application for the place I work because we have a job open. I told him to move fast on getting it and take it seriously because we need the position filled with someone who is going to work. He proceeded to tell me how he is supposed to go see his girlfriend and meet her mom and doesn't know how long it is going to take (could be a week could be six months). I looked at him with a straight face and told him he needs to get his shit together now because that baby will be here before he knows it and they don't come cheap. He didn't like that lol.