My friend is pregnant with her third baby. She is 18. Another accident. One baby is one thing. That's a tough enough situation (I'm 18 with a son of my own.) Two is really pushing it. Get some birth control if you're going to keep having sex!! Her youngest son is now 15 months and she's pregnant again... Everyone at the school we go to is shocked. It's more of a family school - kids go to daycare or preschool and moms go to class. We also have parenting classes. It's like an adult basic education program except our kids are involved. Anyway.. I try not to judge people. I really do. I'm a very compassionate and forgiving person. But 3 kids at that age? I'm speechless... And I'm so sad for her... She doesn't have a job and she lives at home. If I were her parents, I might tell her she needs to leave..
Hopefully her situation improves. All three kids belong to one guy, a dead beat jackass who won't leave her alone. He pays child support but that's about it. He's emotionally abusive.
She's depressed right now. But she doesn't believe in abortion. Adoption is hard, yes, but in this case I believe it is THE best option. I can barely handle working and going to school with one toddler. Although, I am also still with my son's father and we're doing great!
I'm really not sure what to do for her now except pray. Like I said before, I'm speechless. She's an amazing girl.. But she makes the dumbest choices, apparently.