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Why did you get fat and ugly??!! EDIT 1! **EDIT 2! Let me c pics of all the B*TCHES that roll out of bed looking like super models <3

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I will never understand why women fall apart after getting married and having kids. I see so many women overweight, with no make up on, hair a stringy mess, wearing stained Mommy clothes with holes. What in the hell hapkpened? How can you not know how unattractive and pathetic you look??!! I have been married four years and I have gained ten pounds ( on purpose I was too skinny), and I always have my hair and make up done before DH comes home. Even if I didn't leave the house all day. He married a sexy, fun hottie and thats what he deserves. His job is to financially provide for our family. My job is to raise our daughter, keep an immaculate home, and look hot for only him.












EDIT....(I am on my phone so I cannot put it in red)









I LOVE everyone's responses!! I have been a member of this group for a long time, so I know what complete bitches some can be. You didn't let me down!!








Its not just about looking good for your husband. I look good for my daughter too. Im not going to have my daughter embaressed of me. She deserves a mother she can be proud of and look up to, and one she actually wants to spend time with around her friends. I am teaching my daughter to take care of, and value, herself.













If you have never worn make up, Im obviously not talking to you. If you have always been big, Im obviously not talking to you. If you have never cared about your looks I feel sorry for you, but Im obviously not talking to you. Im talking to the women who looked one way when they got married, and very quickly fell apart in the looks department. Im genuinely wondering what happened!! One lady said she had been beaten her whole marriage. Thats obviously a damn good reason to gain weight.








Put your big girl thong on and deal with the truth.




Edit 2 ***************************************************************







I LOVE all the responses and honesty!! Now I want pictures! are you bravr enouvh to put a picture up of yourself once you've already said how "naturally beautiful" u are without makeup??? I will rate you, and as you can tell by my post Im brutally honest. Lets see some of you back up your claims that you roll out of bed looking like a super model!!!




Ill be the judge!
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:10 AM
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EachNewBreath
by on Dec. 23, 2012 at 4:30 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

Im not hearing anyone actually giving any good reasons for giving up on themselves. If caring about my body, looks, husbands opinion,and my image make me a door mat then I guess Im getting walked all over lol.

The simple fact is that the only reason why women who were once beautiful fall apart after marriage is that they have given up on themselves. Why would a man love you if you cannot even love yourself?? I want my husband to know that I value him and that I care about what he thinks of me. why? Because I love him!! All of you are basically telling your husband that you don't give a shit about them or their needs. Thats why they find women that make them feel like real men, and you end up crying in your pillow


mom2hadley
by Heather on Dec. 23, 2012 at 4:33 AM
Lmao
Anonymous
by Anonymous 80 on Dec. 23, 2012 at 4:43 AM
This is great you feel so strong about this, I however have a 5 month old, 2 older boys & a dh that works full time
He's lucky I shower & get myself & baby dressed every day, plus care for my 5 bedroom house. Shit, I'm hot, but I don't need heels & a shit ton of make up to feel/ look that way. I guess being country gives you different aspects to life. Makeup not being one! See ya Barbie ;)
raegansmom
by Gold Member on Dec. 23, 2012 at 4:51 AM
I don't disagree with you.
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cRystienah
by on Dec. 23, 2012 at 4:53 AM

A little late to this post but honestly I've noticed women who have kids and get married kinda have that "I give up" look.. Messy hair ALL the time, no make up, etc. I don't understand why.. Sure once you have kids you may not have as much time to "gussy up" anymore but I mean sheesh, throw on some eye liner and do something at least a little cute with you hair. I will admit, I have "lazy" days too, where I just put on some sweats, throw my hair up and just do what I gotta do.. But I don't do it EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. like some ladies I know. - I'm going to vent a little bit here: Theres this one girl I know. She's a young mother of two and is married.. She just went down hill! And what drives me nuts is she will post pictures on her Facebook of outfits she likes to wear and stuff.. I just wanna be like "Girl, all I EVER see you wear is sweats and a shirt that looks like you've been wearing it for days so stop posting what you claim you "like" to wear!" Okay vent over. Haha.

turtle68
by Silver Member on Dec. 23, 2012 at 4:55 AM
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 I got fat ter and ugl ier because I have a man who loves me and cares nought about my appearance.

For everyone else....fuck you :-)

turtle68
by Silver Member on Dec. 23, 2012 at 4:57 AM

 

Quoting cRystienah:

A little late to this post but honestly I've noticed women who have kids and get married kinda have that "I give up" look.. Messy hair ALL the time, no make up, etc. I don't understand why.. Sure once you have kids you may not have as much time to "gussy up" anymore but I mean sheesh, throw on some eye liner and do something at least a little cute with you hair. I will admit, I have "lazy" days too, where I just put on some sweats, throw my hair up and just do what I gotta do.. But I don't do it EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. like some ladies I know. - I'm going to vent a little bit here: Theres this one girl I know. She's a young mother of two and is married.. She just went down hill! And what drives me nuts is she will post pictures on her Facebook of outfits she likes to wear and stuff.. I just wanna be like "Girl, all I EVER see you wear is sweats and a shirt that looks like you've been wearing it for days so stop posting what you claim you "like" to wear!" Okay vent over. Haha.

 why do you have to care about how others look....she doesnt seem to care about how you think or maybe she actually thinks you are her friend?

turtle68
by Silver Member on Dec. 23, 2012 at 4:59 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

This is great you feel so strong about this, I however have a 5 month old, 2 older boys & a dh that works full time
He's lucky I shower & get myself & baby dressed every day, plus care for my 5 bedroom house. Shit, I'm hot, but I don't need heels & a shit ton of make up to feel/ look that way. I guess being country gives you different aspects to life. Makeup not being one! See ya Barbie ;)

 to be honest ...some of those who think they look fantastic...really really dont.

cRystienah
by on Dec. 23, 2012 at 5:05 AM

I feel bad that she doesn't see what she really looks like.  Just because I think someone down graded on their looks doesn't mean I'm not their friend. If anything I'd be more of a friend to tell her that she looks like shit & it's embarrassing.

Quoting turtle68:

 

Quoting cRystienah:

A little late to this post but honestly I've noticed women who have kids and get married kinda have that "I give up" look.. Messy hair ALL the time, no make up, etc. I don't understand why.. Sure once you have kids you may not have as much time to "gussy up" anymore but I mean sheesh, throw on some eye liner and do something at least a little cute with you hair. I will admit, I have "lazy" days too, where I just put on some sweats, throw my hair up and just do what I gotta do.. But I don't do it EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. like some ladies I know. - I'm going to vent a little bit here: Theres this one girl I know. She's a young mother of two and is married.. She just went down hill! And what drives me nuts is she will post pictures on her Facebook of outfits she likes to wear and stuff.. I just wanna be like "Girl, all I EVER see you wear is sweats and a shirt that looks like you've been wearing it for days so stop posting what you claim you "like" to wear!" Okay vent over. Haha.

 why do you have to care about how others look....she doesnt seem to care about how you think or maybe she actually thinks you are her friend?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 81 on Dec. 23, 2012 at 5:06 AM
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I think I'm going to have I agree with you on this one. While I don't necessarily agree with your presentation of it, I agree with your point. Especially regarding your daughter, I remember how important it was for me,'not only to be the "cool kid" but also that my mom was one of the cool moms, and that includes dressing the part.

I'm guilty of occasionally getting a little frumpy because I don't think about it or I'm super busy, but I ALWAYS feel much better about myself when I'm dressed nicely (not dressed up, just clean, ironed, whatever) and my hair is done. I don't always put on full makeup, but usually at least lip gloss, blush and mascara
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