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Why did you get fat and ugly??!! EDIT 1! **EDIT 2! Let me c pics of all the B*TCHES that roll out of bed looking like super models <3

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I will never understand why women fall apart after getting married and having kids. I see so many women overweight, with no make up on, hair a stringy mess, wearing stained Mommy clothes with holes. What in the hell hapkpened? How can you not know how unattractive and pathetic you look??!! I have been married four years and I have gained ten pounds ( on purpose I was too skinny), and I always have my hair and make up done before DH comes home. Even if I didn't leave the house all day. He married a sexy, fun hottie and thats what he deserves. His job is to financially provide for our family. My job is to raise our daughter, keep an immaculate home, and look hot for only him.












EDIT....(I am on my phone so I cannot put it in red)









I LOVE everyone's responses!! I have been a member of this group for a long time, so I know what complete bitches some can be. You didn't let me down!!








Its not just about looking good for your husband. I look good for my daughter too. Im not going to have my daughter embaressed of me. She deserves a mother she can be proud of and look up to, and one she actually wants to spend time with around her friends. I am teaching my daughter to take care of, and value, herself.













If you have never worn make up, Im obviously not talking to you. If you have always been big, Im obviously not talking to you. If you have never cared about your looks I feel sorry for you, but Im obviously not talking to you. Im talking to the women who looked one way when they got married, and very quickly fell apart in the looks department. Im genuinely wondering what happened!! One lady said she had been beaten her whole marriage. Thats obviously a damn good reason to gain weight.








Put your big girl thong on and deal with the truth.




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I LOVE all the responses and honesty!! Now I want pictures! are you bravr enouvh to put a picture up of yourself once you've already said how "naturally beautiful" u are without makeup??? I will rate you, and as you can tell by my post Im brutally honest. Lets see some of you back up your claims that you roll out of bed looking like a super model!!!




Ill be the judge!
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:10 AM
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Kaelaasmom
by Katie on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:20 AM
I didn't wear makeup before we married, I have no desire to start now.

My husband married me for the person I am, not the way I look, but he has told me everyday for the past eleven and a half years how beautiful I am, no matter how I am dressed or how much I weigh.
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PhoenixsMommy10
by Gold Member on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:20 AM
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Exactly. 

Rich beautiful women with on call hair and make up teams get cheated on all the time.

Quoting shudderette:

Just because you're a "hottie" doesn't mean your husband isn't going to cheat on you. 


lilbit04
by Bronze Member on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:21 AM
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I have never really cared about my appearance, I love wearing jeans, t-shirt and my converse. The only thing I'm really concerned about are my eye brows and I hardly wear make up. The only reason I'm over weight right now is bc I literally just had my son 2 weeks ago.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:21 AM
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I like my great value ham in a can waaaay to much... :(
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:22 AM
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Lmfao!! Sounds like you are on here as much as me.


Quoting PEEK05:

I'm trying to fit the SAHM stereotype with unbrushed hair and teeth, no deodorant, a shower once every two weeks, with a filthy house, and eat generic ding dongs all day long.  I thought that's how it was supposed to be, duhhhhh.


stargazerwolf
by Silver Member on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:23 AM

Well when I was married I gained weight, but I never wore make up from the start, i don't really need much. But I gained weight because I was depressed and had a sh**ty husband who didn't care about me or our daughter and emotionally abused me and that is part of why I left him. However, since I've been with my boyfriend (over a year and we live together) and started staying home with the kids I still don't do much different than I did when we first met. I wear the same clothes, if I wear make up it is not much as I never have needed much, and ya I have some extra pounds because I had our baby 7months ago and am currently working on getting rid of that baby weight. Soooo don't really have much to say on being any different than I always have been. Actually I started wearing a bit more make up going places just because if pics are taken I look a bit better, my hair I don't have to do every day because I got it cut in a cute short style, really short in back and gradually gets longer (a wedge I guess they call it) I only have to straighten it after it gets wet and do make sure I do that before going anywhere. Otherwise nope really haven't changed...

AriMommy
by on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:23 AM
Ahhhh lucky for me I don't need make up to be pretty & my husband loves my booty in yoga pants. I feel sorry for OP that she has to get dressed up & do all that primping to be attractive.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:23 AM
Lol eyebrows is that you?
ledlovebug
by Bronze Member on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:23 AM

Some of my hottest friends have been cheated on.  You should never think you're immune to cheating based solely on the fact that you look good. 

Chasesmum3109
by Platinum Member on Dec. 8, 2012 at 12:25 AM
Amen!

Quoting AriMommy:

Ahhhh lucky for me I don't need make up to be pretty & my husband loves my booty in yoga pants. I feel sorry for OP that she has to get dressed up & do all that primping to be attractive.
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