I am 10 weeks pregnant. and I am getting an abortion. I have stage 3 cancer and need chemo. My family does not know I am pregnant or that I have cancer. I am doing it all by myself. I have 2 kids already. and I feel this is the best choice, as chemo ill most likely kill the embreyo anyways. I am pro-choice, but have never had to make this decision before. it is not easy for me. any advise or experience from those who got the surgical first trimester one? I am not sure what to expect. and google is just really not comforting at a time like this.