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Is Online Sex Chat Cheating?

Anonymous
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Question: Is online sexual chat cheating?

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Absolutely

Not as long as he keeps it online

No

None of the above


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What if they send pictures? Just flirting? Reminiscing of previous sexual encounters with an ex? Or a stranger? How is it different from just fantasy or porn?
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 9, 2012 at 11:37 PM
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FinchsMommy
by Bronze Member on Dec. 9, 2012 at 11:37 PM

BUMP!

Lorelai_Nicole
by Lorelai on Dec. 9, 2012 at 11:41 PM
Um. Duh.
It's different because it's actual people they're involved with. Porn is completely different.
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LiDoMama
by Gold Member on Dec. 9, 2012 at 11:45 PM
Yes, it is cheating, especially if its done behind one partner's back. It can be very hurtful. But I think porn is a different matter...yes it can be addicting, but it is not engaging in a sexual manner or simulated act with another person.
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HisMommy4Ever
by on Dec. 9, 2012 at 11:45 PM

Yes it is. Now, I don't want to make a post but I had a question as well. Do YOU think it's cheating if you dance with a guy...wheather you tell him  you're taken or not?

LiDoMama
by Gold Member on Dec. 9, 2012 at 11:48 PM
It depends. A ballroom type dance? No. Dirty dancing...eh questionable. Mostly I think it depends on if your partner would be comfortable with it or not. And vice versa.


Quoting HisMommy4Ever:

Yes it is. Now, I don't want to make a post but I had a question as well. Do YOU think it's cheating if you dance with a guy...wheather you tell him  you're taken or not?


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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 9, 2012 at 11:48 PM
Yes it is. Trust me. Dh did that crap for months..and we still haven't found the same normalicy we had at the beginning yet
HisMommy4Ever
by on Dec. 10, 2012 at 1:05 AM

Well kinda like if you're in a club with your friends having a good time....THAT type of music....

Quoting LiDoMama:

It depends. A ballroom type dance? No. Dirty dancing...eh questionable. Mostly I think it depends on if your partner would be comfortable with it or not. And vice versa.


Quoting HisMommy4Ever:

Yes it is. Now, I don't want to make a post but I had a question as well. Do YOU think it's cheating if you dance with a guy...wheather you tell him  you're taken or not?



LiDoMama
by Gold Member on Dec. 10, 2012 at 1:15 AM
Yeah I'd still say it really depends on the couple's individual relationship. I know that sounds like a nonanswer, but I know some people who would flip out over that, and others who wouldn't. Personally, I know that dancing at a club wouldn't bother me or my dh. But online sex chats would. The chats are just a different level, imo.


Quoting HisMommy4Ever:

Well kinda like if you're in a club with your friends having a good time....THAT type of music....

Quoting LiDoMama:

It depends. A ballroom type dance? No. Dirty dancing...eh questionable. Mostly I think it depends on if your partner would be comfortable with it or not. And vice versa.





Quoting HisMommy4Ever:

Yes it is. Now, I don't want to make a post but I had a question as well. Do YOU think it's cheating if you dance with a guy...wheather you tell him  you're taken or not?





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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 10, 2012 at 6:57 AM
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Yes it is. Trust me. Dh did that crap for months..and we still haven't found the same normalicy we had at the beginning yet



Maybe you and I need to start a group. The "Hey dumba$$ DHs, sex talk with someone who isn't your DW is cheating!"

I just don't see how someone could rationalize that it's not.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 10, 2012 at 12:11 PM
He had an excuse for everything too


Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes it is. Trust me. Dh did that crap for months..and we still haven't found the same normalicy we had at the beginning yet





Maybe you and I need to start a group. The "Hey dumba$$ DHs, sex talk with someone who isn't your DW is cheating!"



I just don't see how someone could rationalize that it's not.

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