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Do you ENJOY sex?

Anonymous
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Well?



ETA: 

Yes, it was I who asked this.  :)


If you do NOT like sex, and you're upset with reading some rather insensitive replies of "If you don't, you're doing it wrong", please go HERE and read this post. 

You are not broken.


ETA more:  I might as well just copy and paste it here since it's in direct response to the replies on this post.


"If you don't enjoy sex, you're not doing it right." This is probably one of the most untrue and uninformed blanket statements I've ever seen.


I can only imagine how women who don't enjoy sex feel seeing that. 
Many women find that after having terrific sex for years, having a baby changes everything.

There are many reasons you might not be enjoying it.   Hormone changes and lack of libido are only a couple of those and they will eventually correct themselves. 

If you don't like sex because you find it painful you are STILL not doing it wrong.  Some people suffer from something called vaginismus.  It makes penetration very painful.  It can be caused by childbirth or rape or any trauma to the vaginal canal and it's very real and also very treatable.

 


Has no one heard of this before?    I bet there are a few CM'ers who are suffering from it right now and think they're alone or that something is wrong with them.

Not true.  For the sake of your Could Be Great Again Sex Life, look it up:  http://www.vaginismus.com/








Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:07 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:07 AM
Uh, yup.
Lovingmyny
by on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:08 AM
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Hell yeah
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MommytoTwo.
by on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:08 AM
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If you don't you're doing it wrong.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:08 AM
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Sex is yummy
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:09 AM
Of course, I can't imagine not.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:09 AM
Yes.
Frequently.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:09 AM
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sometimes but not all the time

goodnightmama
by on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:09 AM
Of course I do, dh is amazing
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ChloeDolce1
by on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:09 AM

pretty much

MrS.GiFFord
by Platinum Member on Dec. 10, 2012 at 11:09 AM

Lately no. This pregnancy is killing me in the sex department.

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