To ask to have my dd alone for a few hours, even though your just meeting her for the first time in 7 years. I know you are her bio dad and his family but really really bold of you to ask and think i would EVER say "yes you can take dd to your house for a couple hours and then bring her back".... she doesnt know you well yet. so that is a big fat NO or more a HELL NO. Lets re visit this whole alone visit idea in a year when she knows you people better and are an active part of her life.
UPDATE... already... and the verdict! They accepted my answer and agreed with me that is not best at this time for alone time... i guess this vent was a little too soon to post oh and i was polite back.... not like here where im a litte peeved and harsh i just said nicely that he is new to her life and i dont want to make her any more uncomfortable then she is already going to be... they agreed that they didnt want to do the same and left it at that.