Very very bold of you bio dad... Extremely BOLD
Posted by Anonymous
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To ask to have my dd alone for a few hours, even though your just meeting her for the first time in 7 years. I know you are her bio dad and his family but really really bold of you to ask and think i would EVER say "yes you can take dd to your house for a couple hours and then bring her back".... she doesnt know you well yet. so that is a big fat NO or more a HELL NO. Lets re visit this whole alone visit idea in a year when she knows you people better and are an active part of her life.
UPDATE... already... and the verdict! They accepted my answer and agreed with me that is not best at this time for alone time... i guess this vent was a little too soon to post oh and i was polite back.... not like here where im a litte peeved and harsh i just said nicely that he is new to her life and i dont want to make her any more uncomfortable then she is already going to be... they agreed that they didnt want to do the same and left it at that.
UPDATE... already... and the verdict! They accepted my answer and agreed with me that is not best at this time for alone time... i guess this vent was a little too soon to post oh and i was polite back.... not like here where im a litte peeved and harsh i just said nicely that he is new to her life and i dont want to make her any more uncomfortable then she is already going to be... they agreed that they didnt want to do the same and left it at that.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 10, 2012 at 9:10 PM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Dec. 10, 2012 at 9:14 PM
I would of never set up the meeting and visit if i didnt want him around... he has never met her.... she is almost 7 years old. i think alone visit is a bit much dont you... or would you send your child off with someone the just met because its family.
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Guessing the wont know if they should ask again for visits with an attitude like that. I am guessing you don't want bio dad around???
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on Dec. 10, 2012 at 9:15 PM
Yea she just doesn't want him in her DD's life... We don't even know why. I'd say he should get her for a few hours after a month or two, not in a year. A year is a long time to a child.
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Guessing the wont know if they should ask again for visits with an attitude like that. I am guessing you don't want bio dad around???
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on Dec. 10, 2012 at 9:15 PM
I'm speechless anon truly speechless.
Quoting Anonymous:
Guessing the wont know if they should ask again for visits with an attitude like that. I am guessing you don't want bio dad around???
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on Dec. 10, 2012 at 9:16 PM
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Baby steps. He can't expect to much to soon. I'd say no for the time being as well
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on Dec. 10, 2012 at 9:18 PM
I agree with you. If he is serious, he'll wait it out.
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leaving baby alone while i do laundry?