I ask because I was verbally harassed about this today. I am 7 months preg, I was loading dd1 (2 1/2 yo) into her car seat while dd2 (15 moths) sat in the cart (strap in still & 2 steps away from me- still in my direct line of sight). Then someone was threatening me & sayin bad stuff & calling me bad names (in front of everyone in the parking lot). Because he felt I should have been this crazy super mom who could carry both kids and stick them into the car seats simultaneously. I load my kids first because it is 30 degrees outside and they get cold. This way they can stay warm. Not to mention I ALWAYS park next to a cart return- even if it's in the back end of the parking lot so I can safely walk the cart to the return-I even lock my car (even for 5 steps) to be safer. Am I doing this wrong!?! Seriously, what else am I supposed to do?