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I think I'm going to vomit :( TALKED TO HIM!!

Anonymous
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Never said I was staying! I was so shocked and speechless I just hung up the phone. I'm numb right now. I don't feel Anger or sadness or anything. ...


Update: so I talked to him finally and we shot the breeze for a few and I was like oh. Remember the other day I offered to clean up your email and you said you'd appreciate that.. Well, did you forget to cancel your match subscription? He said no, he got it this morning. He said he wasn't sure if we would work out and if we didn't than he was trying to find someone who took care of him better. But we're still together, he hasn't cheated and he still loves me and he still wants to be with me. I was so shocked and numb that I was actually speechless. Who does that???

















I was helping my df go through his emails one day a week or so ago trying to find a confirmation number for something and told him I was gonna clean up his inbox for him. (He has over 4000 unread messages) I asked if he would get upset and he said no he's actually really appreciate it.











So I pulled it up today thinking I would get rid of some obvious junk mail and clean it up some and he had an email from match. ( we met on match so it didn't really surprise me). He had a bunch of dating websites but the emails were never opened so I figured it was just stuff that keeps getting sent out. This one though in the subject line said his profile was approved and dated early this morning.











I had a sinking feeling so I checked his online banking and sure enough he reactivated his account this morning. :(











I think I'm going to be sick.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:15 PM
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Mom2five87
by Platinum Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:16 PM
Wow. What are you gonna do?
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ColorMeCrazy
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:17 PM
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I'm sorry :(

On a good note, you found out that he's a piece of shit before walking down the isle.

momto3B
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:18 PM

I am so very sorry.  Either he set you up to find it so that you would end the relationship so he does not have to or he is looking to cheat. In either case, time to end this thing before you marry and have kids. 

Jers.
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:18 PM

I have no advice, just sorry *hugs*

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:18 PM
I honestly don't know. The past month has been so overwhelming I'm not sure how much more I can handle or if I can even handle anything in a remotely calm manner right now.
I'm shaking.

Quoting Mom2five87:

Wow. What are you gonna do?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:19 PM
:( i found some texts from my dh to another woman this morning. I feel yourpain :(.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:19 PM
That sucks
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:20 PM
I'm sorry. :(

Quoting Anonymous:

:( i found some texts from my dh to another woman this morning. I feel yourpain :(.
Jessy613
by Diamond Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:20 PM

Soo sorry =(

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