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I think I'm going to vomit :( TALKED TO HIM!!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Never said I was staying! I was so shocked and speechless I just hung up the phone. I'm numb right now. I don't feel Anger or sadness or anything. ...


Update: so I talked to him finally and we shot the breeze for a few and I was like oh. Remember the other day I offered to clean up your email and you said you'd appreciate that.. Well, did you forget to cancel your match subscription? He said no, he got it this morning. He said he wasn't sure if we would work out and if we didn't than he was trying to find someone who took care of him better. But we're still together, he hasn't cheated and he still loves me and he still wants to be with me. I was so shocked and numb that I was actually speechless. Who does that???

















I was helping my df go through his emails one day a week or so ago trying to find a confirmation number for something and told him I was gonna clean up his inbox for him. (He has over 4000 unread messages) I asked if he would get upset and he said no he's actually really appreciate it.











So I pulled it up today thinking I would get rid of some obvious junk mail and clean it up some and he had an email from match. ( we met on match so it didn't really surprise me). He had a bunch of dating websites but the emails were never opened so I figured it was just stuff that keeps getting sent out. This one though in the subject line said his profile was approved and dated early this morning.











I had a sinking feeling so I checked his online banking and sure enough he reactivated his account this morning. :(











I think I'm going to be sick.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:15 PM
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3xangel
by *Angelicious* on Dec. 12, 2012 at 8:43 AM
Smh
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tlcory
by Platinum Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 2:41 PM

On no I am so sorry, I was just thinking about you and wondered whatever happened and came back to the post and saw the update, I was so hoping he forgot to cancel it!  How are things now?  Are you trying to work it out? Well I'm praying for you honey, be strong! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 13, 2012 at 2:52 PM
I don't know. I just ate for the first time in 2 days and feel like I'm going to be sick. There's other stuff that's been going on (not just with him) and I feel so I overwhelmed. I asked my boss for a transfer this morning but he said right now he needs me here. We could discuss a transfer in the future. I have everything I can possibly fit in my car packed in there. I guess that was dumb since I have no where to go right now. Lol. :/ so I'm just sitting here at work trying to think.

Thanks for being concerned though. I really appreciate it.

Quoting tlcory:

On no I am so sorry, I was just thinking about you and wondered whatever happened and came back to the post and saw the update, I was so hoping he forgot to cancel it!  How are things now?  Are you trying to work it out? Well I'm praying for you honey, be strong! 

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