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I think I'm going to vomit :( TALKED TO HIM!!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Never said I was staying! I was so shocked and speechless I just hung up the phone. I'm numb right now. I don't feel Anger or sadness or anything. ...


Update: so I talked to him finally and we shot the breeze for a few and I was like oh. Remember the other day I offered to clean up your email and you said you'd appreciate that.. Well, did you forget to cancel your match subscription? He said no, he got it this morning. He said he wasn't sure if we would work out and if we didn't than he was trying to find someone who took care of him better. But we're still together, he hasn't cheated and he still loves me and he still wants to be with me. I was so shocked and numb that I was actually speechless. Who does that???

















I was helping my df go through his emails one day a week or so ago trying to find a confirmation number for something and told him I was gonna clean up his inbox for him. (He has over 4000 unread messages) I asked if he would get upset and he said no he's actually really appreciate it.











So I pulled it up today thinking I would get rid of some obvious junk mail and clean it up some and he had an email from match. ( we met on match so it didn't really surprise me). He had a bunch of dating websites but the emails were never opened so I figured it was just stuff that keeps getting sent out. This one though in the subject line said his profile was approved and dated early this morning.











I had a sinking feeling so I checked his online banking and sure enough he reactivated his account this morning. :(











I think I'm going to be sick.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:15 PM
Replies (51-60):
angevil53
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:08 PM
I hope this us the case.


Quoting tlcory:

Well I love you too!  Lol. I think that is a great way to Handle it, I don't know him but I don't think he would pay for something like this with an account you have access to if he was trying to deceive you.  Sounds like he probably didn't realize he had to cancel it.  Hope everything works out! 


Quoting Anonymous:

I think I may love you.. Lol



When I get a hold of him I'm just going to be like so.. I was trying to straighten up your email like we talked about and hey, did you forget to cancel your match subscription??



:/



Quoting tlcory:

But it could automatically go through the bank, I.e. I gave my debit/credit card info to Ancestory even though I received a new debit card they still had the bank information that just deducted it from my account so it doesn't matter if he has a new card is the checking account number still the same?  Just hoping I can help find a reasonable explanation here! 



Quoting Anonymous:

He's been having issues with his bank and got all off his cards clipped, cancelled and new ones issued. I checked when I saw your response and the card he used was just activated on the 8th. :(





Quoting tlcory:

Are you sure it just didn't automatically renew? I know on Ancestory.com it does that and it automatically took the money out of my account. Maybe he just didn't realize he had to cancel it? 




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TxBrandi
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:09 PM

ouch!  that hurt!  but I agree with the person that at least you found out now!  Don't let him give you some lame excuse or talk you out of walking away!

 

SadeAyosmom
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:11 PM

either sit and watch what goes down. or confront him ASAP.

3gr8tKids
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:12 PM
Quoting Anonymous:


I don't get it... he knew you were cleaning up his in box. But then you said you met him on a dating site. Now I get the feeling that wasn't too long ago.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:14 PM
It was a bit ago. Quite a bit ago actually.

Quoting 3gr8tKids:

Quoting Anonymous:




I don't get it... he knew you were cleaning up his in box. But then you said you met him on a dating site. Now I get the feeling that wasn't too long ago.
MamatoKy
by Platinum Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:15 PM

 eh thats not good.

3gr8tKids
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:21 PM
Quoting Anonymous:




okay I'm just trying to wrap my brain around what you said . Seems odd to have all these emails from the dating site still in his inbox.

Clearly there's a problem . I'm not sure you get the truth even if you ask him.
TTC2Long
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:21 PM
Call the site customer service and ask. Could be a glitch. GL.
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armywifey26
by Krissy on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:24 PM

Ouch. I'm sorry mama :(

rawrmommysaurus
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:27 PM

talk to him.

Could it be that it was an automatic renewal?  I'm not familure with those types of sites, so just throwing out ideas.

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