Did you and your husband's sex life cool off? I don't mean stop completely, but has sex dwindled? Do you go through up and down cycles? Is normal to lose some of the passion? If so, how do you get it back?
Don't get me wrong, my DH and I have great sex when we do have it. I orgasm, and so does he. That's not the issue. The issue is that we're not adventurous anymore. We only have sex in the bedroom. No where else. We pretty much only do it with me on top (I'm not complaining, it's our favorite). We shower together, but there's no more foreplay. It's just routine business for us, and we talk. There's no more hot sex in the living room or on the bathroom counter. Not even in a chair. It's strictly on the bed in our bedroom. We have sex about once a week. While I don't think that is a horrible thing, I do wish that we did more often. I wish that I could say that it was all my DH, but I know that some of it is me. We are just in a lazy rut. I don't know what to do to get out of it. We do have 5 kids and one on the way. He works a full time job plus some extra hours when needed, and he is in graduate school. I just feel like we have too many excuses not to. I'm sick of it. We used to be like rabbits before we got married. Now, I just feel tired, and sometimes just down right unwanted. Everything is routine, and just not very passionate. What do I do?