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How do I drop hints that IM READY FOR HIM TO PROPOSE

Anonymous
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SO has said on many many occasions he wants to marry me... 

OK thats awesome so why don't you ask me already...


Should I drop subtle hints that I'm ready for a ring on my finger? and what would those subtle hints be lol?


***on a side note, I'm still legaly married until january 8th =( so maybe he is just waiting for that, it would make it a little less white trash lol but damn it I think a christmas proposal would be PERFECT...

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 11, 2012 at 7:07 PM
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sthflachk
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 7:07 PM
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You shouldn't...especially if you're still married.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2012 at 7:08 PM


Quoting sthflachk:

You shouldn't...especially if you're still married.

I know but but but....yeah your right lol =(

RoseBlossom
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 7:09 PM

well maybe he wants to make an honest woman out of you for himself. it sucks having to be married legally to someone when you want to be with someone else. i have been in your shoes because my ex refused to finish the divorce paperwork 4 years later. i had to sue him for divorce.

sthflachk
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 7:10 PM
Have patience....don't rush him....he already said he wants to....he may have a plan or be saving for a ring....don't ruin it for him....

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting sthflachk:

You shouldn't...especially if you're still married.

I know but but but....yeah your right lol =(

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DayDreamer1201
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 7:10 PM

You're still married, wis probably turning him off to the whole marriage thing. Wait until you divorce is finalized until you start dropping hints. 

SevenKisses
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 7:23 PM

So you are ready, congrats - now why don't you wait until HE is ready.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2012 at 8:08 PM
It sucks doesn't it! We were only married a month before we separated...now he's been dragging it out because he's a dick I guess idk why...but we finally have a court date =D glad it's only been a year and not 4 tho! That would make me go crazy

Quoting RoseBlossom:

well maybe he wants to make an honest woman out of you for himself. it sucks having to be married legally to someone when you want to be with someone else. i have been in your shoes because my ex refused to finish the divorce paperwork 4 years later. i had to sue him for divorce.

Sanctimommy
by Platinum Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 8:13 PM

1. Hide an alarm clock in the bedroom. When it goes off a 3 am, and he asks why it's there tell him, "Oh, it's time for you to propose.".

2. When washing the dishes, suddenly and unexpectedly burst into tears. When he asks why tell him you feel like an old maid.

3. Punch him in the balls. When he asks why, say you're not married, that's why. Men love it when their women fly into a rage for no apparent reason.

4. Rent a zillion wedding themed movies for red box and force him to sit through a marathon. Bring plenty of KleenEx.

5. Grab him by the shoulders, shake him until his teeth rattle and bellow, "Marry me, already, asshole!"

No really, I got nuthin'.

ETA: What? You're already married? Fuck this post. I'm done here.

Two_Hearts
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 8:16 PM

How long have you been together ? 

And ...screw the subtle hints , he is a man ...he won't get them ha ha ha . 

Come right out and say 'hey...just wondering , you say you want to marry me..was wondering how much longer approxiametly that i have to wait till you pop the question?" 


SnapIt
by Platinum Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 8:16 PM
Patience silly!
Lol

Get your stuff done first
It will make it feel so much better when he does

Nothing like be so happy being asked and some dumb ass comes and says...
But arent you still married???

Its just around the corner
Maybe hit for Valentines....
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