I'm going anon for this because I know I will probably get bashed for this. My sister will be having her baby any time now and I volunteered to watch my niece while she has her baby so her and her dh didn't have to worry about her. Well I told her my dh offered to watch my niece for a little bit so I could come see her and the new baby she informed me she didn't want any visitors at the hospital and for atleast a week after. That just really hit me hard! We were originally going to take classes together and I was going to be in the room with her while she delivered because her dh isn't a very good birthing coach and she didn't have the money for a doula. Well I decided a doula would help her more to go natural and is a lot more certified than me so I payed for her to have one. Now she does this after all I have done for her I'm not allowed to see my new niece for a week! That pisses me off to no end! I feel like I could just blow up. It makes me want to say fuck it and find someone to watch your daughter! Even though I want to I won't but I'm still pissed! I know I am probably overreacting but I just can't believe my sister would be such a bitch after all that I have done for her through this pregnancy and her 1st! Vent Over.