stressed and we havent even had to cross this bridge yet *piog*
Last night we were talking about how Abigail is a good sleeper and normally only nurses twice at night. DH said we would get a pump soon and he would handle the night feedings. I told him not to worry about it. NIght feedings are no issue and I dont want her to ever have a bottle anyway. He asked about when I start school and I told him the longest I will be away is three hours.I will just feed her before school and leave two or three ounces in a cup with the daycare.
Then he said "well atleast at one you can wean her and you wont have to worry about it" !!!!
I got so mad. lol
I said quickly "no, Im not weaning when she is one.It isnt your choice anyway. Are these your boobs?"
He said, "Its not my choice? Im not walking around with an eighteen month old who nurses.
I told him that he wont be walking around with the 18nmonth old nursling. I would, besides at that age I will control the public feedings. I can say no and wait until we get home. I also said that nothing magical happens when babies turn one and I will nurse her until she wants to stop. Plus why stop after the first year when they are so picky about food?
He got quiet but I can tell he was peeved. I really dont care. He isnt having a say in this decision. It is mine and Abby's decision.I am so mad I have an uneducated husband. so mad.
I told him to do some research before he tries to tell me to stop nursing again. I am normally very compliant when it comes to things. not this time. forget it