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Anonymous
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done having babies. I have three children. The baby is 10 years younger than my middle child. DH says hes done. She is a handful at times but she is a great baby over all.

I was thinking of TTC after I was done with school. If your Dh isn't with it would you try without him knowing? He won't leave me so I am good there, just incase anyone is going to say that.


Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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by Platinum Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:18 AM
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No, I wouldn't sneak and try to get pregnant. Ever.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:18 AM

depends on how badly I want a baby and if i know we can afford another one. lol 

beerabitch69
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:20 AM

this

Quoting -42-:

No, I wouldn't sneak and try to get pregnant. Ever.


 

Kitschy
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:21 AM
Ffs
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MommaOfFive440
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:21 AM
No thats just wrong
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Alison_C
by Silver Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:21 AM
Never. How would you feel if he wanted another and you didn't and you discovered him messing with the birth control?
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TiffanyRose06
by Queso<3 on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:22 AM
That's not fair to him. Marriage is a partnership, and if your partner doesn't want another its not fair to have one on purpose.
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by Platinum Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:23 AM


Quoting Alison_C:

Never. How would you feel if he wanted another and you didn't and you discovered him messing with the birth control?

Or, screwing another woman to get a baby from her!


lol

Bethbeth
by Silver Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:23 AM

 no way. i think that is a terrible thing to do.

i think lying about anything, or doing anything behind your husband's back is a terrible thing to do, but to have a baby that way? awful.

dtristan78
by Silver Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 10:24 AM
Nope. Raising children and deciding to have another is a dual responsibility. That is a deception I am not willing to live with. You could try talking to him, honestly, to see if he'll change his mind. Some partners say no but mean maybe, depending on the current situations.
I've thought of trying for my 4th BUT after discussing with DH, we agreed not to try.
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