I got married to my dh, who I've been with for 9 years, 6 months ago, and we've hit some rough patches in those 9 years, (not really the point) But what couple doesn't? For the past 2-3 months he's been treating me like a child, yelling at me, putting me down, not showing affection, then bitches when I don't want to have sex with him and I get more of an attitude from him. It honestly feels like I'm living in hell and I hate it. Our marriage feels like it's deteriorating and I don't know what to do, I don't want to leave him, but I can't deal with this anymore, it's hard to even talk to him because it turns into a yelling match where we both say something that will hurt the other. I know he won't do counseling, so that's out of the question. I'm just not sure anymore. I've thought about taking the kids and staying with my mom for a few days and see what happens. What would you do? I don't need to be bashed, I just need some advice.