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This is getting ridiculous. May be TMI (PIOG)

Posted by on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:43 AM
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I'm 28 weeks with baby #3. I have zero sex drive. Dh thinks I'm not attracted to him anymore, which isn't the case at all. I've tried explaining it to him. It hurts. It's uncomfortable and it just hurts. When we were TTC, we were having sex daily, sometimes multiple times a day. Then a few weeks into my pregnancy, my drive was just gone. I thought maybe it had to do with stress - we moved to a different state when I was 6 weeks pregnant, we were having issues with ds's dr, just lots of stress. Well, things are so much better now, but my sex drive is still in the crapper. I'm at a loss. I wasn't like this with my first two pregnancies. In fact, we had sex 3 or 4 times every single day.

What can I do?? Have any of you gone through this??
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twinmommy27
by Ruby Member on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:44 AM
Hugs!!
Bump!
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MeghanPerez
by on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:45 AM
Thanks. I feel so bad I just want to cry.

Quoting twinmommy27:

Hugs!!

Bump!
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KMadsen
by Platinum Member on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:46 AM

Maybe he would be satisfied with more oral since sex is uncomfortable at the moment.

Junesmommy18
by on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:46 AM
Just have sex with him. The more you have it the more you will want it.
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MeghanPerez
by on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:47 AM
I've tried that. He says it's nice, but it's just not the same. I'm sure that's the nice way of saying I'm no good at performing oral. Lol

Quoting KMadsen:

Maybe he would be satisfied with more oral since sex is uncomfortable at the moment.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:49 AM
I had the same problem when I got pregnant with my daughter. I am a very sexual person, and would have sex at least once a day. Then when I was about 4-6 weeks it just stopped. I didn't want it, and nothing I did changed it. My sex drive was gone :(

It took about 3 months after my daughter was born before it came back.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:51 AM

It happens.

He'll deal with it.

lnrmom
by on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:51 AM
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Gets some KY and set up a whole night of it - romance, etc. I'm sure you're tired, but have some fun. Relax. Enjoy the ride (Literally)

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 18, 2012 at 9:52 AM
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One day, as soon as you get out of bed just think about sex with your husband. Watch some porn when you get a moment, have fantasies. See I'd that helps you pounce him by the time you see him.
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