When we got married we already had a son who was almost two and we agreed that 3 was a good number. I have always wanted atleast 5 and he said he wanted 3 so I agreed since I was happy with him and I figured we would be able to give our kids more if there were 3 instead of 5. We started ttc #2 the night of our wedding and it took 9 months to conceive. Now our youngest is 7 months and our oldest is almost 4 and I watch a little boy that is one once a week. DH told me last week that he does not think he wants anymore children. I understand that he can change his mind but I am so upset right now. I was hoping to start ttc around our youngest sons birthday and it really was a shock to me. After our youngest was born he even mentioned that he might want a daughter some day, and he had said many times that he was terrified to have a daughter because his family has not had a girl born into it in 20 years.
I am so angry and upset and I do not know how to talk to him about it. It would be different if he said not for a few years but he flat out said no.