So because i want 30 mins at the store alone im meeting someone?
Well, i asked if i could go to the store tonight alone yesterday. He asked what i was getting. I said stuff to make xmas cookies.
Well, i asked him a few mins ago if i could still go. Ive been home basically for 3 days witb 3 kids. He goes to work early and gets home late. I want a small break and told him i needed a break. Im bout ready to rip my hair out with watching the kids alone all day.
Df gave me the 3rd degree. Where u goin? Who you meeting? How long are u going to be gone? I told him dollar tree, not meeting anyone, and maybe half an hour. He asks again who im meeting and if im not meeting anyone why do i want to go alone? So i said again i need a small break. So he says u better have ur phone charged, on, and answer when i call, and u better have all ur reciepts.
Im not a child. He goes all kinds of places alone but if i want to go somewhere alobe im cheating, or meeting someone, or trying to leave him.
He is super insecure but i have never slept wuth anyone else while we were together, but i have left him twice. I dont understand why he treats me like a child.
Last night for example. He had cards like every Tuesday. He said he had to run to his moms and he would be home by 11pm. He called me at 10:57 and said hed be home in 30 mins. Well, surprise he wasnt. He didnt get home til 12:30am. Dinner was done at 11pm. I cant go anywhere alone im surprised hes letting me go today. He got pissy when i was complaining about him being out so late. I have to be up at 7am every morning, but he does as he pleases and expects me to not say a word and with no reguard to how anyone else feels.
I didnt do anything wrong last night and all i want is a break from all kids. He doesnt understand how i feel. Hes never spent an entire day with his kids but expects me to spend an entire week. Im tired of watching his kids. Theyre a friggin nightmare!!!