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Anonymous
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is anyone else just with the dh only for the kids?

my dh and i hate each other and we are only together for our son... am i alone in this?
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:25 AM
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LiDoMama
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:30 AM
There was a period of time a few years ago that I felt like that. But no, I realize now that I do love him. Either way I'm sorry. Maybe counseling?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:30 AM
My parents did that, hate them for it
LoveMyLos
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:32 AM
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No bc that just fucks up your kid.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:34 AM
he wont go to counceling with me... he just says i need to quit being lazy and do what he says then we wouldnt have issues, which is bs because he is a douche bag either way... i really hate him. and if i leave he will take my son so i have no choice but stay
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:35 AM
That's mental abuse right there.
Id see a lawyer if I were you
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:37 AM
cant aford one, im a stay at home mom. thats why he will take my ds because "i cant provide and never will be able to provide for my son"

Quoting Anonymous:

That's mental abuse right there.

Id see a lawyer if I were you
Lindalou907
by Gold Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:37 AM

If you hate him make a plan and get out. You are only hurting everyone's chance at a happy life.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:40 AM
Probono? You should be able to get cs out of him

Is there any family or friends nearby willing to help?

Maybe a pt job and try to save up? Might take a while but at least you can eventually leave


Quoting Anonymous:

cant aford one, im a stay at home mom. thats why he will take my ds because "i cant provide and never will be able to provide for my son"



Quoting Anonymous:

That's mental abuse right there.


Id see a lawyer if I were you

KailesMommy
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:41 AM
Well how could he just take your son? Staying together for the child will mess the child up. He will be able to tell you guy didnt like each other. Its just not a good thing either bc your also teaching him to be in a crappy relationship as well and that its ok.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 20, 2012 at 5:42 AM
ive thought about that but no im alone ive tried to leave once but no one would help. and i dont have anyone to watch my son while i work and no where to live

Quoting Anonymous:

Probono? You should be able to get cs out of him



Is there any family or friends nearby willing to help?



Maybe a pt job and try to save up? Might take a while but at least you can eventually leave




Quoting Anonymous:

cant aford one, im a stay at home mom. thats why he will take my ds because "i cant provide and never will be able to provide for my son"





Quoting Anonymous:

That's mental abuse right there.



Id see a lawyer if I were you

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