Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Mom Confessions Mom Confessions

the other womans child

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
  • 161 Replies
1 mom liked this
My husband had an affair which produced a child. They haven't seen each other in that way since he ended it with her 3 years ago. We decided to work thru this and go to counseling. Yesterday the mail came and there was an envelope for him. I knew it was a card. I opened it and pictures fell out. When he came home I gave it to him. He said she sends him the cards/pictures every year. I asked him where they are, he said he throws them away.

I retrieved the pictures from the trash. I told my mom about it, she said throw them out and stay out of it. Wwyd?
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:19 AM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:20 AM
1 mom liked this
If he throws them away, that should be good enough
Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:21 AM
17 moms liked this
I'd be so disgusted with him that I wouldn't even be able to look at him, much less live with and sleep with him.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:21 AM
26 moms liked this
I wouldn't be with a man who doesn't want anything to do with his kid.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:21 AM
8 moms liked this

I couldnt stay in a relationship where my so had a child with someone else while we were together. I just couldn't do it. I'd have too much resentment.


Kaelaasmom
by Katie on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM
11 moms liked this
I could never stay with a man who refused to have anything to do with his own child.
Posted on the NEW CafeMom Mobile
LyTe684
by Ruby Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM


Quoting Nicoleb9:

I'd be so disgusted with him that I wouldn't even be able to look at him, much less live with and sleep with him.
Posted on the NEW CafeMom Mobile
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM
He pays child support. He told her he didn't want the child. She had it anyway.


Quoting Anonymous:

I wouldn't be with a man who doesn't want anything to do with his kid.

JoyfulinSD
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM
1 mom liked this

Stay out of it.  Trust me on this one.  STAY OUT OF IT!  He doesn't want this haunting him and it is. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM


Quoting Kaelaasmom:

I could never stay with a man who refused to have anything to do with his own child.
Roxygurl
by Emerald Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:23 AM
2 moms liked this
Wow. What a stand guy your husband turned out to be, his mom must be so proud.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)