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the other womans child

Anonymous
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My husband had an affair which produced a child. They haven't seen each other in that way since he ended it with her 3 years ago. We decided to work thru this and go to counseling. Yesterday the mail came and there was an envelope for him. I knew it was a card. I opened it and pictures fell out. When he came home I gave it to him. He said she sends him the cards/pictures every year. I asked him where they are, he said he throws them away.

I retrieved the pictures from the trash. I told my mom about it, she said throw them out and stay out of it. Wwyd?
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:19 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:20 AM
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If he throws them away, that should be good enough
Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:21 AM
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I'd be so disgusted with him that I wouldn't even be able to look at him, much less live with and sleep with him.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:21 AM
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I wouldn't be with a man who doesn't want anything to do with his kid.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:21 AM
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I couldnt stay in a relationship where my so had a child with someone else while we were together. I just couldn't do it. I'd have too much resentment.


Kaelaasmom
by Katie on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM
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I could never stay with a man who refused to have anything to do with his own child.
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LyTe684
by Ruby Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM


Quoting Nicoleb9:

I'd be so disgusted with him that I wouldn't even be able to look at him, much less live with and sleep with him.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM
He pays child support. He told her he didn't want the child. She had it anyway.


Quoting Anonymous:

I wouldn't be with a man who doesn't want anything to do with his kid.

JoyfulinSD
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM
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Stay out of it.  Trust me on this one.  STAY OUT OF IT!  He doesn't want this haunting him and it is. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 AM


Quoting Kaelaasmom:

I could never stay with a man who refused to have anything to do with his own child.
Roxygurl
by Emerald Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:23 AM
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Wow. What a stand guy your husband turned out to be, his mom must be so proud.
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