My husband had an affair which produced a child. They haven't seen each other in that way since he ended it with her 3 years ago. We decided to work thru this and go to counseling. Yesterday the mail came and there was an envelope for him. I knew it was a card. I opened it and pictures fell out. When he came home I gave it to him. He said she sends him the cards/pictures every year. I asked him where they are, he said he throws them away.
I retrieved the pictures from the trash. I told my mom about it, she said throw them out and stay out of it. Wwyd?