the other womans child

[Anonymous]

My husband had an affair which produced a child. They haven't seen each other in that way since he ended it with her 3 years ago. We decided to work thru this and go to counseling. Yesterday the mail came and there was an envelope for him. I knew it was a card. I opened it and pictures fell out. When he came home I gave it to him. He said she sends him the cards/pictures every year. I asked him where they are, he said he throws them away.

I retrieved the pictures from the trash. I told my mom about it, she said throw them out and stay out of it. Wwyd?

[Anonymous]

If he throws them away, that should be good enough

[Nicoleb9]

I'd be so disgusted with him that I wouldn't even be able to look at him, much less live with and sleep with him.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be with a man who doesn't want anything to do with his kid.

[Anonymous]

I couldnt stay in a relationship where my so had a child with someone else while we were together. I just couldn't do it. I'd have too much resentment.

[Kaelaasmom]

I could never stay with a man who refused to have anything to do with his own child.

[LyTe684]

Quoting Nicoleb9:

I'd be so disgusted with him that I wouldn't even be able to look at him, much less live with and sleep with him.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

He pays child support. He told her he didn't want the child. She had it anyway.

Quoting Anonymous:

I wouldn't be with a man who doesn't want anything to do with his kid.

[JoyfulinSD]

Stay out of it.  Trust me on this one.  STAY OUT OF IT!  He doesn't want this haunting him and it is. 

[Anonymous]

Quoting Kaelaasmom:

I could never stay with a man who refused to have anything to do with his own child.

[Roxygurl]

Wow. What a stand guy your husband turned out to be, his mom must be so proud.