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Im a horrible mom :"(

Anonymous
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I couldn't get dd much for xmas and wont be able to for her bday either. Im heart broken i feel so bad. I left dh who was drug user and abusive. Im barely making it by working mini wage and going to college. I have to live with my mom since i cant afford to live on my own. If it wasn't for her idk what id do.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:50 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:50 PM
I wish i could give her more.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:52 PM
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mom_3.0
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:52 PM

how old is she?

crescentstar2
by expecto patronum on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:53 PM
You gave her a gift by leaving an abuser
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:53 PM
2 in jan


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how old is she?


Des10ed2b
by Gold Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:54 PM

she is young enough she wont know the difference, dont worry!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:55 PM
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Don't feel bad mama. Maybe the two of you can bake cookies and snuggle on the couch with hot chocolate and watch Christmas movies. Those are the things she will remember as she gets older. Shes not going to care about the things she did or didn't get in a few years. Things will get better and good for you for leaving your so.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:55 PM

Not a big deal, sweets. Brighten up and don't be so hard on yourself. She'll be just fine and so will you. You already gave her the best gift you could, getting away from that abusive drug user. Make some cookies with her, cuddle with her and read some books, that will be everything to her. 

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2 in jan


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how old is she?



mom_3.0
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:56 PM

oh! she won't even know anything that's going on on Christmas. I'm serious. And she def. wont remember it. 

Just enjoy the day with family. 

This year, your gift to her is a lifelong one - getting away from a bad environtment and into safety to protect her. 

You will have so many more years to get gifts for her. Be thankful she is so little that Christmas won't mean anything to her.

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2 in jan


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how old is she?



RaynesMommy07
by Ruby Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 12:56 PM
The best gift you could ever give her is not letting her grow up around an addict and watching you getting abused. Best decision you'll probably ever make for her. Merry Christmas and just enjoy time with your DD.
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