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I have a problem with my DH....

Posted by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 8:45 PM
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 I find myself in an awkward position.  We are expecting our 6th baby, and we have been married for 9 years.....but I still lust after him.  It's bad.  I stare at him naked.  I always want him to hold me, and I just can't get enough.  I mean, things aren't super hot like they used to be, but it's better in a lot of other ways.  Here's where the delimma comes in.  He is happy with having sex like 2-3 times a week at the most.  I need it more than that.  I mean, I'm seriously drooling over him.  Sometimes, he even holds out to like once week, and I will admit that this may be a one-sided viewpoint because we do have 5 kids that are 8 and under plus a pregnancy to deal with.  A lot of our life is consumed by taking car of kids and shuffling to and from various activities.  I guess, I just need to know how to entice him more often.  I tend to wait for him to come to me because I don't want to bother him.  What do you ladies do?

 

Wife to a wonderful man, and mother to five beautiful children. :)


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Litlmama87
by Platinum Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 8:47 PM
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5 1/2 kids, work, AND daily activities?

Applaud the man for making the little soldier stand at attention at this point lol
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sparklebug86
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 8:47 PM

good for you ;)

no advice though

DieMyDarling
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 8:52 PM

Have you spoken to HIM about it?  I vocalize things like that with my dude b/c I know he doesn't like it when I come onto him.  He prefers to initiate...I guess it's some sort of alpha male dealio I don't know lol 

Momof5kids84
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:03 PM

 lol  I sound terribly ungrateful, I know.  It's his fault.  He shouldn't be so damn sexy.

Quoting Litlmama87:

5 1/2 kids, work, AND daily activities?

Applaud the man for making the little soldier stand at attention at this point lol

 

Wife to a wonderful man, and mother to five beautiful children. :)


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Momof5kids84
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:06 PM

 Yes, I have spoken to him about it.  I have tried to just chill out, too.  He is very affectionate, and he always compliments me.  No, he's not cheating. He doesn't have time to.  lol  I leave the conversation with the feeling that I make him feel sexually inadequate.  I don't mean to.  He says that I always make it sound like it's his fault.  I'm guilty of being tired sometimes too.  That is true.  After 3 days though, I just feel neglected.  My hormones must be in overdrive.  lol

Quoting DieMyDarling:

Have you spoken to HIM about it?  I vocalize things like that with my dude b/c I know he doesn't like it when I come onto him.  He prefers to initiate...I guess it's some sort of alpha male dealio I don't know lol 

 

Wife to a wonderful man, and mother to five beautiful children. :)


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happykitty316
by Ruby Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:07 PM

Lol, I don't wait, just go for it.  Even if it doesn't end the way I want, DH has never doubted how much I want him.

Momof5kids84
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:17 PM

 lol

Quoting happykitty316:

Lol, I don't wait, just go for it.  Even if it doesn't end the way I want, DH has never doubted how much I want him.

 

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meagn3388
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:19 PM
Are you sure you're not the dh? He should be happy you want sex as much as you do with 5 kids and one on the way! A lot of women are like "do not touch me em effer!"
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Momof5kids84
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:22 PM

 lol  Nope, not the DH.  He's in the living room playing NCAA football on the PS3.  He's passing the time away until the national championship game.  He's a huge Alabama fan.

I told him that, too.  That started some shit.....

Quoting meagn3388:

Are you sure you're not the dh? He should be happy you want sex as much as you do with 5 kids and one on the way! A lot of women are like "do not touch me em effer!"

 

Wife to a wonderful man, and mother to five beautiful children. :)


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meagn3388
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:28 PM
Well I applaud you and your sex drive bc when I was pregnant the thought of having sex made wanna throw up lol

Quoting Momof5kids84:

 lol  Nope, not the DH.  He's in the living room playing NCAA football on the PS3.  He's passing the time away until the national championship game.  He's a huge Alabama fan.


I told him that, too.  That started some shit.....


Quoting meagn3388:

Are you sure you're not the dh? He should be happy you want sex as much as you do with 5 kids and one on the way! A lot of women are like "do not touch me em effer!"

 

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