Me and hubby don't live together, he lives out of state for work. He comes home for holidays and sometimes the kids school vacations. So after about a year of him being gone, I began having a hard time getting in touch with him couldn't reach him at work, he was not answering his phone or texts messages. I had a gut feeling he was cheating. So of course I did some searching and found a shit load of stuff. I confronted him with my proof and he said he was sorry, his family means so much to him, he just got caught up, he was going to end it blah, blah, blah. Silly me believed him and turned a blind eye to it. I convinced myself well as long as my bills are paid and have a roof over our heads I wouldn't/shouldn't care. Of course he didn't end it. We went to visit him and found female things at his place which he tried to explain away. I told him no explanation necessary. I just kept my distance. Whenever he called I would let him speak to the kids. I just went on with my daily life. But that got old real fast, and Iet him know that enough is enough. Once again he said he would end it. Whenever he is here she calls constantly; he ignores her calls but to me she shouldn't be calling at all if its over. Well anyway she just called and I told him that I was going to call her back and let her know that she is not to call him that he is with his family. He got pissed with me and said if I did he was packing his bags and catching the next flight out. So I told him really you would just walk away from your kids and their Christmas because of a phone call to your whore. So I told him to get the f*** out then. He had the balls to say I was over reacting and blew up for nothing. I'm trying to calm down because my kids are wondering whats wrong with me. But man I'm so pissed! I'm pissed at myself for allowing this for so long!!