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orgasm during rape update w/my story

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Do you think a girl/woman is really raped if she gets pleasure from said rape?

Please explain your opinions.

I was raped by my ex husband and I had an orgasm.
I'm curious about others opinions.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:16 PM
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ihave1
by Platinum Member on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:27 PM

 Yes. If she said no then it was rape.  Why the heck are you even asking this.

Jessica_Esqueda
by on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:28 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

I 100% know & believe it's still rape.
My now ex dh raped me and I felt even more humiliated because I had an orgasm.
It's also why I didn't report the rape because I thought they wouldn't believe me.

My ex is still under the impression that it's impossible to rape your wife. He uses my orgasm as proof.

HUGS. I'm sorry. Spousal rape, or partner rape, very rarely gets reported and it's a damn shame! A lot of rapists don't know they are rapists, in that regard. Not that that makes it okay! 

I have a long, long history of rape. 17 years of it. I frequently orgasmed, and it's something I've had to come to terms with. For a long time, I felt guilty and filthy because of it. Just know that YOU did not do wrong. Whether your body enjoyed it or not, you did not consent, and you were victimized.  



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BEXi
by BEXi on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:28 PM

If I am not emotional into sex, I cant enjoy it... Thats how MY body reacts to sex. Im not saying everyone is like me..

Quoting Jessica_Esqueda:

Just that you said you can't orgasm if you aren't turned on... Rape victims get turned on too. It's a physical thing. that's all I'm trying to say. 

Quoting BEXi:

Im not sure where I said it wasnt.

Quoting Jessica_Esqueda:


Quoting BEXi:

I cant orgasm unless I am turned on.... so yeah. :|

It's still rape. 




                                                         
                                          
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Mommy4two
by Bronze Member on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:29 PM

You have no control on what happens to your body during something of this nature... if your body hits a climax whether you want it to or not you're going to have an orgasm...

AnastasiaKorsh
by on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:29 PM

:(

What a fucking asshole. I'm sorry that you went through that, and I'm even more sorry you didn't report his ass, because there is far too many people in this word who put stipulations on what rape is.

Quoting Anonymous:

I 100% know & believe it's still rape.
My now ex dh raped me and I felt even more humiliated because I had an orgasm.
It's also why I didn't report the rape because I thought they wouldn't believe me.

My ex is still under the impression that it's impossible to rape your wife. He uses my orgasm as proof.


ecerka
by Platinum Member on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:29 PM
Honestly I thought the post said do you think it's possible to orgasm even if it's rape. Damn me for reading and responding too fast: )

Quoting Jessica_Esqueda:

:)

Quoting ecerka:

Again I don't know. Haven't ever been in that position. If a woman says it's rape it's rape even if they did orgasm.



Quoting Jessica_Esqueda:


Quoting ecerka:

If I was raped I don't think I'd orgasm. That's just me. However, I have never went thru that so I don't know.





Quoting Jessica_Esqueda:


Quoting ecerka:

I wouldn't think so but then again the body sometimes has a mind of it's own.

Why wouldnt you think so? 

I don't think anyone THINKS they would orgasm. You have to be in that situation to know for sure. Of course, I hope you are never in that situation to let me know whether or not you orgasmed. But it can happen, and often occurs completely independantly of your protest. 


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aprilsalcro
by Platinum Member on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:30 PM
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I agree with you for MY body

Quoting BEXi:

If I am not emotional into sex, I cant enjoy it... Thats how MY body reacts to sex. Im not saying everyone is like me..

Quoting Jessica_Esqueda:

Just that you said you can't orgasm if you aren't turned on... Rape victims get turned on too. It's a physical thing. that's all I'm trying to say. 

Quoting BEXi:

Im not sure where I said it wasnt.

Quoting Jessica_Esqueda:


Quoting BEXi:

I cant orgasm unless I am turned on.... so yeah. :|

It's still rape. 




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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:31 PM
You take stupid pills lately
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:32 PM
Because I went through this and was unsure on whether or not other women would agree.




Quoting ihave1:

 Yes. If she said no then it was rape.  Why the heck are you even asking this.


AMDS0304
by on Dec. 26, 2012 at 6:32 PM
Yes it's still rape
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