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Has anyone hurt you by leaving you

Anonymous
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Question: Does it hurt worse not knowing why someone left you?

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Without an explanation why?


Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:04 AM
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lizmartinez
by Bronze Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:07 AM
Like an SO or a parent?
With an SO, I think it could hurt worse, but if they don't give you an explanation as to why they don't want to be with you they probably weren't worth it. With a parent, definitely. I can't imagine all the things that go through the mind of an abandoned child as they grow up. (I DO NOT mean children who were placed for adoption, but children who are in general left by a parent).
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WhitleyLyles
by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:08 AM
I have never been left by anyone.
Did this happen to you?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:08 AM

Anyone in general.

Quoting lizmartinez:

Like an SO or a parent?
With an SO, I think it could hurt worse, but if they don't give you an explanation as to why they don't want to be with you they probably weren't worth it. With a parent, definitely. I can't imagine all the things that go through the mind of an abandoned child as they grow up. (I DO NOT mean children who were placed for adoption, but children who are in general left by a parent).


winkyloafer
by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:09 AM
My ex never gave me a clear reason. His mom explained everything to me about a year ago.
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lnrmom
by Ruby Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:10 AM

I've never been left without knowing why. But I can't imagine that not knowing why would hurt any less than knowing why.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:10 AM

I thought your parents abandoned you and wouldn't refused to talk to you? A long time ago. I was reminiscing.

Quoting WhitleyLyles:

I have never been left by anyone.
Did this happen to you?


WhitleyLyles
by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:18 AM
I left home. they didnt leave me.

Quoting Anonymous:

I thought your parents abandoned you and wouldn't refused to talk to you? A long time ago. I was reminiscing.

Quoting WhitleyLyles:

I have never been left by anyone.

Did this happen to you?


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WhitleyLyles
by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:18 AM
and they did refuse to talk to me but honestly I really didnt want to talk to them either

Quoting WhitleyLyles:

I left home. they didnt leave me.



Quoting Anonymous:

I thought your parents abandoned you and wouldn't refused to talk to you? A long time ago. I was reminiscing.

Quoting WhitleyLyles:

I have never been left by anyone.


Did this happen to you?


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:19 AM
What was the reason?

Quoting winkyloafer:

My ex never gave me a clear reason. His mom explained everything to me about a year ago.
malissaL
by Platinum Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:20 AM
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yes, I wonder all the time how my dad could stay away for a month at a time without calling or coming to see us..I love my babies so much I couldn't even imagine leaving them like that. As a child, I used to wonder why Daddy didn't come see me, if he was mad at me..when I would go see him, I was so unnaturally well behaved that a lot of my stepmoms side of the family were almost suspicious of me..

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