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Do You Think It Is Okay To Wear Fur?

Real Fur Coats Should Be Okay to Wear (As Long As They're Vintage)

Posted by Michele Zipp

vintage furI wear fur. Well I have fur coats and I used to wear them a lot more than I do now. I have four of them. All vintage. The one I'm wearing in this photo I purchased for $40. It's the warmest coat I own, but I don't wear it that much because it's feels showy, maybe too glamorous. And if I wore it to pick up my kids from preschool it would feel as if I was wearing a ball gown with a tiara.  Sure the tiara would be a hit with the kids, but would the dead rabbit annoy some of the other parents? Do I need to sew a button on it that says "It's okay. It's vintage."

Because I do feel that makes it okay. The animal has long been dead -- we're talking gone for 30 or 40 years -- and the coats are just floating around in vintage stores and Etsy shops waiting to keep someone really warm in the winter. Wearing a vintage fur coat is just like recycling. It's eco-friendly in it's own way.

So why do I find it so hard to wear for the everyday?

Maybe I worry that since I'm a mom now, the act of picking up my kids -- up and down and up and down -- would just make my fur coat shed causing a trail of dead bunny rabbit hairs all over the place? Would it be weird to be in a fur coat and pushing my kid on a swing at the park? Just as odd as say, wearing heels at the playground. I've done that. I can do this, too.

What is stopping me from wearing my fur? Maybe it's because I don't live in NYC anymore and I'm upstate in a crunchy town? Then I saw Pam. Her daughter is in class with my twins. Pam always looks gorgeous even when just coming from a run. I can't even run so the fact that she can and still look that good is incredible in my book. There she was in a faux fur coat picking her child up from school. Instantly glamorous without overdoing it. Perfect.

faux fur coat

The look of real fur versus fake fur is essentially the same. No stigma attached to the fake one though, and no chance of shedding. But the style, the way it's plush and cozy and warm and fancy, is there.

Pam's faux fur has given me the courage to wear my real fur. My vintage real fur. Or shall I just start calling it my eco-fur coat.

Do you wear vintage fur?

Do you think it's okay to wear fur?

 

by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:25 AM
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Bauxite-17
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 5:27 AM

I think its creepy. But thats just me.

SOCO101
by Silver Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 5:28 AM

Yea, I think it's ok. 

I wear leather, don't have any fur.

autumns_mom22
by Silver Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 5:39 AM
Not sure how I feel about that. Personally I couldn't knowingly wear real fur. It would just seem wrong to me.
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surfgrl60
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:03 AM

I dont wear it because its ugly, but its ok to wear.

fotoladysince9
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:25 AM

I think I know what you mean. It looks dressy. I agree with the others it's no different than eating meat or wearing leather. You didn't kill the animal that was sacraficed for the coat. 

Since I'm older, I only buy faux fur. However if it's vintage whats done has been done. Wear your coat girl!!!

dqsmami06
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:30 AM
I have faux fur on my suede boots. Some of my relatives wear big fur coats and they look great wearing it. I personally don't look good in a big fur coat like a lot of women do. If you love it go for it! Don't worry about what others think. Express your own style!
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Mazi184
by Platinum Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:33 AM
I sure would! I have a similar coat to the one in the second picture.
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by Anonymous 23 on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:34 AM

well, at  least the hide is keeping you warm...in the old days, your coat woulda been stolen

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by Ruby Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:36 AM

It doesn't bother me.  That's a soapbox I just don't care to get up on.

YzmaRocks
by Ruby Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:40 AM
Sure, why not? I don't because I don't like the look but I have no problem with others who want to do it. I do have a nice leather jacket that I love to wear :)
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