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Do You Think It Is Okay To Wear Fur?

Real Fur Coats Should Be Okay to Wear (As Long As They're Vintage)

Posted by Michele Zipp

vintage furI wear fur. Well I have fur coats and I used to wear them a lot more than I do now. I have four of them. All vintage. The one I'm wearing in this photo I purchased for $40. It's the warmest coat I own, but I don't wear it that much because it's feels showy, maybe too glamorous. And if I wore it to pick up my kids from preschool it would feel as if I was wearing a ball gown with a tiara.  Sure the tiara would be a hit with the kids, but would the dead rabbit annoy some of the other parents? Do I need to sew a button on it that says "It's okay. It's vintage."

Because I do feel that makes it okay. The animal has long been dead -- we're talking gone for 30 or 40 years -- and the coats are just floating around in vintage stores and Etsy shops waiting to keep someone really warm in the winter. Wearing a vintage fur coat is just like recycling. It's eco-friendly in it's own way.

So why do I find it so hard to wear for the everyday?

Maybe I worry that since I'm a mom now, the act of picking up my kids -- up and down and up and down -- would just make my fur coat shed causing a trail of dead bunny rabbit hairs all over the place? Would it be weird to be in a fur coat and pushing my kid on a swing at the park? Just as odd as say, wearing heels at the playground. I've done that. I can do this, too.

What is stopping me from wearing my fur? Maybe it's because I don't live in NYC anymore and I'm upstate in a crunchy town? Then I saw Pam. Her daughter is in class with my twins. Pam always looks gorgeous even when just coming from a run. I can't even run so the fact that she can and still look that good is incredible in my book. There she was in a faux fur coat picking her child up from school. Instantly glamorous without overdoing it. Perfect.

faux fur coat

The look of real fur versus fake fur is essentially the same. No stigma attached to the fake one though, and no chance of shedding. But the style, the way it's plush and cozy and warm and fancy, is there.

Pam's faux fur has given me the courage to wear my real fur. My vintage real fur. Or shall I just start calling it my eco-fur coat.

Do you wear vintage fur?

Do you think it's okay to wear fur?

 

by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 10:25 AM
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dustinsmom1
by Bronze Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:44 AM

 Love real fur and leather too. As long as i is not from an endangered animal, i have zero problem w/ fur. Most furs (coats ect.) come from animals specifically raised for their coats.

sammygrl77
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:48 AM
I don't have an issue with any fur coats. The animals are already dead.
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KristaElizabeth
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 9:53 AM
The fur items I have we're from my grandmothers and from their mothers
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sandra1023
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 7:02 PM

No, never.

sandra1023
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 7:03 PM


Quoting sammygrl77:

I don't have an issue with any fur coats. The animals are already dead.

Google some fur farm videos.  Many are skinned alive just for their fur.

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sammygrl77
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 12:52 PM
Well, there's really nothing I can do once they are already dead. Ruining or protesting someone's fur coat isn't going to undo what happened to the animals.

Quoting sandra1023:



Quoting sammygrl77:

I don't have an issue with any fur coats. The animals are already dead.

Google some fur farm videos.  Many are skinned alive just for their fur.



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sandra1023
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 3:21 PM
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I agree.  Though, I believe in educating people about it.  I think many people wouldn't wear fur if they knew how it came to be.  That is who I aim for.  I can't do anything about the ones that know but simply don't care.

Quoting sammygrl77:

Well, there's really nothing I can do once they are already dead. Ruining or protesting someone's fur coat isn't going to undo what happened to the animals.

Quoting sandra1023:



Quoting sammygrl77:

I don't have an issue with any fur coats. The animals are already dead.

Google some fur farm videos.  Many are skinned alive just for their fur.




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