Christians, would you let your kid have a Pagan friend? UPDATE
My family and I are openly Pagan.
My kids are allowed to learn about and even follow different religious or spiritual paths if they so choose.
My 13 yr old is quite Pagan. He gave a talk on it in Boy Scouts a few years ago, and he wears a Pentacle necklace all the time.
Most of his friends are either Pagan or their parents are good friends of mine who know we are Pagan.
We recently moved to a new neighborhood and he met a boy who is also 13. The boys have become best friends and are frequently at each other's houses.
Not long ago, his friend made the comment "Wow your family really likes that star in a circle..You all must be from Texas?" My son looked confused and then said "We lived in Corpus Christi for awhile" (we did)
Then the boys went off to ride bikes....
Later, my son asked me if he should tell his friend that we are Pagan and what the star in a circle really is. I asked him why he was concerned and he said that his friend's family is very Christian and has pictures of Jesus around the house and go to church all the time and he didn't want them to refuse to allow them to play together.
I told him I would think about it and we will talk later.....
So Christains, what would your reation be if you found out one of your kid's friend was Pagan and from a Pagan family? Would you still let your child play with the kid? Go to their house? Spend the night?
I had to take my son to the ER last night (he's fine now) and when we got there his friend was there with his mother. They had brought a neighbor in to be seen.
We sat next to them and the mom and I started talking. Finally, I said to her that there was something I had been meaning to talk to her about. I explained that my son was worried that if she found out our spiitual beliefs that she wouldn't let the boys play together.
She asked what we believed, and I told her we were Pagan. She had heard of Paganism but really didn't know much about it. I gave her a brief rundown and offered to explain it more in depth at my house some day, and even offered to let her borrow a couple of my books if she wanted.
She said that she didn't have a problem with it, and she was glad the boys were friends. She said my son was a good influence on hers and that my son had nothing to worry about.
She even gave my son a hug and told him he was a great kid and she didn't care what he believed in.
I want to thank everyone who answered honestly and respectfully even when your views were different from mine.