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ive never been so happy to go home UPDATE 1 UPDATE 2 UPDATE 3

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Someone saw DH profile on and sent me the link,this muthafucker put dd pics on his page and apparently she does not live with him.he's seeking beautiful ladies who want to hangout and have fun.

I make up a page with a fake daughters name.I hit him up telling him I think he's cute.he asked if my real name was Sophia because that's his daughter name LOL.

Then I ask him about his daughters mom.we are not together and I left him for another man so he see's our daughter twice a week.

At this point im furious and co worker is like "I got you some bail money" lol.I get home and dh is like "hey baby".I say nothing and head straight to our bedroom.dh is like "ummm I said hey baby" but im to busy packing his shit to hear anything he says.

He comes in the bedroom and sees that im packing his shit and immediately starts freaking out.he wants to know what's going on,I pull out my phone and show him OUR conversation.he was pretty shocked lol,started blaming me for everything.I don't do this or I don't do that.

I ended the argument with telling him to get his shit and leave but instead of doing that he called the cops im sitting here waiting on them.

I will update when they show up and leave

Got a feeling I will be doing alot of updating.cops are still not here,dh is outside on his phone trying to get his niece to help him get his shit.he's telling her that I set him up so I can move my boyfriend in lol.he also told her I tore up his clothes so he's having me arrested.I just put the clothes in trash bags.the cops are here brb.

The cops come(about three cars).DH took all of his clothes and threw all over the yard.first two cops come in my house to get my side of the story while two others are outside with dh.I can hear him screaming that im a fucking bitch and that im fucking my neighbors husband.I tell the cops I just want him to leave and take his shit with him.his niece and her son and DIL show up.she starts talking shit but an officer tells her to be quiet lol.DH is still running his mouth to the officers and they are asking him to leave.he tells them "that bitch go it coming".one officer asks him if that's a threat.DH tells them that he's going to fuck up that new 25k car I just bought when they leave.he's told that if he touches my car he will be arrested.this dunbass spits in the officer face.there were 4 cops on DH trying to arrest him because while trying to cuff him he resisted or something he gone but now the niece tried to fight me,I told that bitch to beat it or she's next so they left too.l

I went from laughing about everything to trying not to cry.the thought of dh making an ass of him and me both pisses me off.I finally gave him his 15 minutes of fame when he called from jail.he's facing assault on an officer,resisting arrest and destruction of private property(he broke an officers cellphone too).apparently I shouldn't have started this mess and he wouldn't be in the blame for everything.I told him I was done with his bullshit,I can't deal with this anymore.he tries to baby me but that didn't work.i told him that I will be finding someone to pick his things up and take them to his niece house.he begins to scream at me telling me im not leaving him and that when he get out we are going to get some help.I can't talk to him so I hung dd knows something is wrong and asked for papa,I tried not to but I cried and couldn't tired and paranoid and now crying isn't helping co worker is going to come by and help me clean up my yard.I will continue to update if possible.

I caved,packed up me dd and my 2 small dogs and left to stay at a hotel for the so tired and dh wont stop calling my cell so he calls the house.I knew the longer I stayed in the house the less sleep I will going to bed thanks to all the ladies who showed me so much support tonight,I really needed it.

My house has been destroyed! I get a frantic call from my next door neighbor saying that DH and three other guys are taking shit out of my house and that she has called the and the cops show up at the sametime.DH is yelling and screaming at my neighbor calling her every name in the book.again another 3 cars show up and two cops go over to DH trying to calm the situation down.the third cop comes over to me and again I explain the situation.the cops tell DH that he is not allowed to remove any of our property from the home until we go to divorce court and everything is divided between us so they had to put everything back.the cops follow me into the house and we are all shocked,it looks like someone broke into my house,everything trashed including dd cop go outside and grab dh and starts questioning him and of course he denies everything.he got out at 7am and my neighbor saw him here.he left and came back by 9:30 with the other guys he brought with him.the cops filled out a police report but didn't arrest anyone because there's no physical proof DH did this...uumm wtf? So all my stuff is here in the house and I got most of the house straighten bff who works at a bank I used called and said that DH tried withdrawing money from my account but wasn't on it so he flipped out and left lol.I closed our account months ago because he has some bad spending rabbits and don't wanna go broke behind him.I went out and bought new locks for every door in my house and im installing a security system which I should have had a long time ago and since you ladies and the cops instructed me to file a restraining order I will be doing that soon also.he was told not to come back but we will see how that goes.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:18 PM
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by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:36 PM
New update?
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by Gold Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:36 PM

yeah i know that if the one parent takes the kids they keep them until custody is established beyond that i dont know much 

Quoting mom2priceboys:

well, lets see what the police say but yeah I would have left with my kids just becasue i have dealt with the abusive thing and them not making him leave

Quoting Anonymous:

really? maybe she should leave with dd before they get there??

OP do you have somewhere you could stay?

Quoting mom2priceboys:

and the bust is they probably wil not make him leave but giver her the option of leaving and probably without her child. She will have to legally evict him from the home, it sux!!!

by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:36 PM

Ouch!  So sorry this happened!

by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:37 PM


by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:37 PM

oh boy! gotta love the classic turn it around on you tactic.

by Anonymous 13 on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:38 PM

The cops arent really going to care you ripped his clothes up.....been there done long as no1 is hurt they are going to be more annoyed they got called out for nothing....i hope things work out for you OP.

by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:38 PM

**Saving my spot for more updates** 

by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:38 PM

Bump for update...

by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:38 PM
dang lot of cheating men out tonight lol
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by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 8:38 PM
What an ass
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