ok, this sounds like a good place to get some opinions haha.
whenever my dad comes over he just walks in. no knock or anything. i invited him christmas eve, got a "maybe" and as i was about to start dinner i went to check my phone to see if he had texted or called and BAM the door opens... dh literally jumped, i stopped in my tracks and my MIL got scared... it was my dad barging in, turning off dh's music... like, WOAH, glad i was about to make dinner cause it all just made me uncomfortable.
he does that everytime he comes over, unless we lock the door or open it before he gets to it.
when i go to his house, i knock, open the door and yell, hey its me!!! i rarely go uninvited. but this was the house i grew up in... and I would never just walk through the door without making my presence known.
how would you handle this? it drives dh CRAZY. it annoys me. but im HORRIBLE at saying stuff haha.