S/O what are your reactions if you son called to tell you that,... *4th edit*
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Question: I like the girl (she seems enchanting) SO i would encourage the relationship....
Total Votes: 136
He is dating a woman who is 25 years old with a son and he wants to marry her. *and he wants your opinion*
Is going to school full time (wont get a degree for a couple of years)
and has recently been divorced. (father not in the picture)
This woman has a couple of thousand it debt... but she is working it off.
She wants a traditional marriage (aka SAHM) etc etc etc
GO!
Honest thoughts!! This is your baby boy we are talking about!
IF you chose OTHER please let me know why. Thank you very much!
ETA: its not CC debt. Its some money she borrowed from her family when she fled her husband, then some more to get a divorce, and the last bit is some money she owes to the Army for getting out a lil early (she took the pregnancy clause) Would the type of debt change your feelings? Or is it just the debt in general?
4th Edit-- I am the "gf" in this hypothetical. I am recently divorced after having been separated for two years. I am thinking about dating (I did NOT date at all when still married, even though we were not together i was still a married woman) I am trying to get a feel for what the dating world may hold for me :D Thank you all fo your honest input!
I think it's hard to find a full-time college student without debt these days. The cost of tuition is unbelievable.
she is a good person
Your son is responsible but prolly not finacially stable. Just starting out, a lil in savings,.. has a decent job prolly. I would say 18-30
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How old is he? Is he responsible to care for a child? Is he financially stable? Is she a good person?
Do you ever get hit on even looking a mess?
Why inflict this silly cosmetic pain on a baby!?!