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Pics of another woman...

Anonymous
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That's what I found in DHs work bag. There were a few different shots of her in different swim suits. On the back of each one had her name on it and a note-like I'm glad you are sticking around in her handwriting.

Yes, I was being nosy, going through his bag, but that's not the point.

I did confront him about it, and he literally said, piss off. He said I should go to my mothers, & he would go out and give me something to worry about.

An hour went by, he came down and said he's never cheated, & never talked to another woman since before we were dating.

I'm hurt & upset, I don't know what to do. You don't carry around half naked pics of a different woman while you are married.

Thanks for reading. I don't have anyone to talk to about this.

There's nothing more to the story. We weren't fighting or anything. Just the opposite, he said he was ready to ttc, and we have been. I went in his bag to see why it was so darn heavy.
I'm not going to be on here anymore tonight, my head hurts.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 29, 2012 at 10:46 PM
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Lalalie
by Gold Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 10:58 PM
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You're right honey. That is wrong, and for him to react like that? It says something terrible. =/

rebeccarae
by Bec on Dec. 29, 2012 at 10:59 PM

I'd do some more confronting, he was very defensive. Def not good!

findingserenity
by Gold Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 10:59 PM
What an asshole
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justpeachy71904
by peachy on Dec. 29, 2012 at 11:00 PM
Wow. I'm sorry.

His reaction makes me think there is more to this story then we have though. Are you separated? Pending divorce? Fighting?

I'm sorry I hope you two can communicate and fix this
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owl0210
by Emerald Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 11:00 PM
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He's totally banging her. I'm sorry :(

LoveVenus
by Silver Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 11:01 PM

Hmm!!You handled it very well mama.Had that would of been me,I probably would have bitch slapped him with the pictures that would of been the way of me asking him, who the hell is this?

Grumpylilpixy
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 11:01 PM

I thought pics of another woman or man were a no,no in a marriage...

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 29, 2012 at 11:01 PM
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 Tell him you believe him and you're sorry, then really start digging and find out what he's up to, cause he is full of shit

catrig
by Platinum Member on Dec. 29, 2012 at 11:02 PM
I am sorry. He's being an ass, and being an ass about being one.
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KaylasMama11
by on Dec. 29, 2012 at 11:02 PM

what a dick

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