Eta. I leave my five month ok dd with a 12 year old overnight
Since most of you are saying roughly the same thing, I'll explain further! The 12 year old is my sister! She begs me to let the girls come stay with her! The whole time she has the baby my mother is there and goes to check on them. I am not doing it to go out or anything, I have another child too! My mother is there to step in if she gets overwhelmed but she hasn't yet! She does great with putting the baby to bed, getting up to feed/ change her! And is an awesome aunt! Plus it gives me a little extra time to focus on my oldest daughter for a little while! Just us!