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If you were raped and got pregnant, would your husband accept the child?

Anonymous
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 I asked my husband this and he looked at me like I had 2 heads. He assumed I would use the morning after pill, and if that didn't work, get an abortion. So I do not think he would be too pleased if I kept the child.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:53 AM
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CuriousArentYa
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:54 AM
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I would probably do the morning after pill and if that didn't work, adoption. I think my husband would support me either which way. 

Mamasgirl524
by Platinum Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:55 AM
I would definitely do the morning after pill.

I'm sure he would, he accepts my oldest daughter
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:55 AM
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I would have an abortion and leave the aborted fetus on the rapist's door step.

sorcha1945
by Gold Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:55 AM
No he would not. Already talked with him about it. I would opt for adoption because I do not believe in abortion. I would take the morning after pill though.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:55 AM
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IDK. Fortunately, it's never happened. No one can really speculate that hasn't been in those shoes.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:56 AM
No. Neither would I. I would not have the baby.
SalemWitchChild
by Blessed be on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:56 AM

I have no idea. We had considered adoption at one time and he told me he didn't think he could see the child as his own. So I really don't think he could. Thankfully I had a tubal so if I should ever be raped pregnancy wouldn't be a problem.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:56 AM
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 Well I wouldn't accept the pregnancy, so it really wouldn't matter his feelings. I'd be aborting.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:56 AM
Bump. Gonna ask him when he gets home to see what he says.
QueenBof6
by Ruby Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:56 AM
No. I wouldn't accept it. He might if I did. He is very much against abortion. But there's no way I would keep it.
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