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If you were raped and got pregnant, would your husband accept the child?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

 I asked my husband this and he looked at me like I had 2 heads. He assumed I would use the morning after pill, and if that didn't work, get an abortion. So I do not think he would be too pleased if I kept the child.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:53 AM
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KelissaMaye
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:13 PM
Lol. I honestly didn't even notice. Your mind and my mind did the same thing, I believe.

Quoting CuriousArentYa:

I hate it when I am quoted and realize I misspelled a word. I usually proofread but my mind must have fixed it for me. 

Quoting KelissaMaye:

This 100%

Quoting CuriousArentYa:

I would probably do the morning after pill and if that didn't work, adoption. I thik my husband would support me either which way. 



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Anonymous
by Anonymous 38 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:17 PM

i wouldnt keep it... who cares what my SO thinks.....

imo

Anonymous
by Anonymous 39 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:17 PM

 Yes. I got pregnant during a short term relationship while my DH and I were briefly seperated. It was hard at first, but once the baby was born, he was automatically her father. He has never treated her differently, and never mentioned her paternity.

wrensong
by Pagan Mother on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:18 PM

I asked mine and he said that it wouldn't be the baby's fault and it would be a part of our family.

A friend of ours has a 15 yr old daughter who is the product of rape, so he has seen how a child of rape can be loved and be as much a part of a family as any other kids

RichardsMom0209
by Bronze Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:18 PM

It wouldn't matter. I wouldn't accept the child. I know it's not the childs fault but I would not have it.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 40 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:19 PM
I asked dh. He immediately said abort. I'd have to say I agree.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 41 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:20 PM

I was rapped and I had to do the morning after pill. I wa sicK AS A DOG

BluePandaDreams
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:21 PM
There would be no child to accept as I would get an abortion.
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BamaMommy2
by Angel.N.Disguise on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:21 PM

Yes, he would. Neither of us believe that aborting an innocent baby is the right answer.

LoveMyLos
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:21 PM

i think so. if not, then hed be single. i don't do abortions. 

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