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If you were raped and got pregnant, would your husband accept the child?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

 I asked my husband this and he looked at me like I had 2 heads. He assumed I would use the morning after pill, and if that didn't work, get an abortion. So I do not think he would be too pleased if I kept the child.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2012 at 10:53 AM
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armywife8112011
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:21 PM
I believe he would, but we cannot get pregnant so i think it would be tough for me to have a child that wasnt his. i would do what most people said, morning after pill or adoption. its still a baby, and i dont believe in abortion. someone would love that baby..
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Anariama
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:22 PM

Yes.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:22 PM

I wouldn't accept the child.

angelmj
by Silver Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:24 PM

I would not have a monsters baby.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:25 PM
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Yes he would. and i wouldnt be married to a man who feels the way your DH does. 

lucsch
by Platinum Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:25 PM

Yes, though we both would be terribly upset about the rape, we would accept the child. The child does not deserve being killed because I feel negatively about its father.

This won't happen, though--I'm through menopause.

Reepicheep.CSL
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:26 PM
I would never abort a baby. Maybe put the baby up for adoption if it was too painful to keep him/her or have DH adopt her/hum and say that they were adopted so that they would never know they were a product of rape.
Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:27 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

 Well I wouldn't accept the pregnancy, so it really wouldn't matter his feelings. I'd be aborting.

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mythreesons278
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:27 PM
Yes
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babylove041810
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 7:28 PM
I would not abort so I would probably give the baby up for adoption.
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