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I'm leaving DH for my exDH

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Well, in dream land I am! I had a dream last night that made me wake up and say WTF?!?! Ex dropped the kids off with me as a surprise and I wanted to talk to him about letting kids stay longer with me. He shocked the hell out of me by telling me it would make him more than happy if I would move where he's moving and come back to him. We hugged, we kissed, we had sex and I planned out how I was going to leave my current DH.

I know where this dream stems from. I do want to talk to ex about kids relocating here with me since he's moving from one state to another after he used "not uprooting" kids in his argument at court. Plus, my DS's desire to have his family whole again. But, I'm still shaking my head and saying WTF?!?!

Anyone else have any strange ass dreams???

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2012 at 11:22 AM
Replies (31-40):
redhead-bedhead
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 11:51 AM
I agree with this.

Quoting JLS2388:

It shouldn't matter then. Since either way, they can't stay in their home state, the judge would be likely to send them to live with the parent who would be there to parent them the most, clearly that's not him.


Quoting Anonymous:

 They already live in a different state than me, he's actually moving closer to me. But his new job only gives him 1 day off for every 13 worked. His fiance is the one getting my parenting time and while I think she's a sweet girl, I'm their mama!


Quoting JLS2388:


Well if he is moving out of state, you very will could get a judge to order the kids back to you


 


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 11:51 AM
Yeah he comes to dream land every couple of months but usually I get to give him a hug and tell him I love you but this time I never got to him. So who knows what that means. Maybe he's saying that 8 years a husband and 2 kids later I should be over it?


Quoting Anonymous:

 sad


Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah my ex that passed away came to dream land to tease me last night he kept laughing and walking further and when I reached him for a hug he was gone.

 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 11:53 AM

 Perhaps. Maybe he's trying to get you to let go and stop hurting.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah he comes to dream land every couple of months but usually I get to give him a hug and tell him I love you but this time I never got to him. So who knows what that means. Maybe he's saying that 8 years a husband and 2 kids later I should be over it?


Quoting Anonymous:

 sad


Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah my ex that passed away came to dream land to tease me last night he kept laughing and walking further and when I reached him for a hug he was gone.

 


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 12:18 PM
It just makes me hurt more.


Quoting Anonymous:

 Perhaps. Maybe he's trying to get you to let go and stop hurting.


Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah he comes to dream land every couple of months but usually I get to give him a hug and tell him I love you but this time I never got to him. So who knows what that means. Maybe he's saying that 8 years a husband and 2 kids later I should be over it?



Quoting Anonymous:


 sad



Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah my ex that passed away came to dream land to tease me last night he kept laughing and walking further and when I reached him for a hug he was gone.


 



 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 12:31 PM
I'm sorry. Have you tried counseling? I haven't lost anyone close to me since I was 9, so I'm not much help.

Quoting Anonymous:

It just makes me hurt more.




Quoting Anonymous:

 Perhaps. Maybe he's trying to get you to let go and stop hurting.



Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah he comes to dream land every couple of months but usually I get to give him a hug and tell him I love you but this time I never got to him. So who knows what that means. Maybe he's saying that 8 years a husband and 2 kids later I should be over it?




Quoting Anonymous:



 sad




Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah my ex that passed away came to dream land to tease me last night he kept laughing and walking further and when I reached him for a hug he was gone.



 




 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 12:35 PM
I'm broke and ashamed to tell my dh that I'm not over a guy who's dead. When I met dh 5 years ago I had told him. It had only been 3 years and he thought it was crazy so I'm definitely not telling him now.


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sorry. Have you tried counseling? I haven't lost anyone close to me since I was 9, so I'm not much help.



Quoting Anonymous:

It just makes me hurt more.






Quoting Anonymous:

 Perhaps. Maybe he's trying to get you to let go and stop hurting.




Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah he comes to dream land every couple of months but usually I get to give him a hug and tell him I love you but this time I never got to him. So who knows what that means. Maybe he's saying that 8 years a husband and 2 kids later I should be over it?





Quoting Anonymous:




 sad





Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah my ex that passed away came to dream land to tease me last night he kept laughing and walking further and when I reached him for a hug he was gone.




 





 



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 12:49 PM
Maybe write a letter to your ex, laying out all your feelings and telling him goodbye. Then tear it into tiny pieces, find a quiet place and scatter the pieces there? Or even burn the letter?

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm broke and ashamed to tell my dh that I'm not over a guy who's dead. When I met dh 5 years ago I had told him. It had only been 3 years and he thought it was crazy so I'm definitely not telling him now.




Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sorry. Have you tried counseling? I haven't lost anyone close to me since I was 9, so I'm not much help.





Quoting Anonymous:

It just makes me hurt more.








Quoting Anonymous:

 Perhaps. Maybe he's trying to get you to let go and stop hurting.





Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah he comes to dream land every couple of months but usually I get to give him a hug and tell him I love you but this time I never got to him. So who knows what that means. Maybe he's saying that 8 years a husband and 2 kids later I should be over it?






Quoting Anonymous:





 sad






Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah my ex that passed away came to dream land to tease me last night he kept laughing and walking further and when I reached him for a hug he was gone.





 






 



ihave1
by Platinum Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 12:51 PM

 I have strange dreams, but not like this.   

VintageWife
by Gold Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 12:53 PM

I have weird dreams like that all the time. Dh and I discuss them and laugh about them. It's funny how the mind twists everything. We can always pinpoint how the dream came to be. It's always a combination of something we just talked about plus something that we saw on the tv plus something we may have read about an old ex on fb or something. Ya know?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 30, 2012 at 12:58 PM
I wrote the letter a week or 2 after he passed and I placed it under his ashes in his moms room. I don't know if it's still there I couldn't ask her for it.


Quoting Anonymous:

Maybe write a letter to your ex, laying out all your feelings and telling him goodbye. Then tear it into tiny pieces, find a quiet place and scatter the pieces there? Or even burn the letter?



Quoting Anonymous:

I'm broke and ashamed to tell my dh that I'm not over a guy who's dead. When I met dh 5 years ago I had told him. It had only been 3 years and he thought it was crazy so I'm definitely not telling him now.






Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sorry. Have you tried counseling? I haven't lost anyone close to me since I was 9, so I'm not much help.







Quoting Anonymous:

It just makes me hurt more.










Quoting Anonymous:

 Perhaps. Maybe he's trying to get you to let go and stop hurting.






Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah he comes to dream land every couple of months but usually I get to give him a hug and tell him I love you but this time I never got to him. So who knows what that means. Maybe he's saying that 8 years a husband and 2 kids later I should be over it?







Quoting Anonymous:






 sad







Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah my ex that passed away came to dream land to tease me last night he kept laughing and walking further and when I reached him for a hug he was gone.






 







 




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