you don't have to be first at every single thing!!!!
DS is almost 6. he has to be first at EVERYTHING. just now i gave him a bowl of chips and got myself a bowl too. he came running up to me saying "i finished first mom! i win!!" once again i told him nicely it was not a competition and he needs to knock it off with the whole "i win, i was first" thing. seriously kid. knock it off!!