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Can I love him but not be in love with him

Anonymous
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I love my husband but I am no longer in love with him.
Its fell apart with his controlling ways and I asked him to leave already but he's pretending were okay.
How do I explain that I do love him but not how I use to
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:01 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:07 PM
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Liyoness
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:09 PM
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Why do you want to explain that to him? What does it matter really that you love him 'but not how you used to'?

What have you done to fix your marriage?

D.O.E.
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:10 PM

i dunno. i keep telling my dh that our marriage is not going to last, i encourage him to take back his old job and move back into our old house with his brother on his parents farm. i told him i will be a very nice EX not a douchy ex.......he just looks at me and says i am being hormonal. 

then starts acting goofy, trying to suck up.

well its not working. i dont want to live with a man anymore. period.

PinkButterfly66
by Emerald Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:13 PM
Walk away. File for divorce and only allow communication thr attorneys, he'll get the idea eventually.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:26 PM
I told him i need him to change his attitude and him he treats me but he said he can't bc that's who he is..


Quoting Liyoness:

Why do you want to explain that to him? What does it matter really that you love him 'but not how you used to'?

What have you done to fix your marriage?


la-cosa-nostra
by Gold Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:27 PM
Why explain? Just leave him.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:29 PM
I asked him to leave once already b he has a place to go and me and the kids don't right now but he doesn't get im serious


Quoting PinkButterfly66:

Walk away. File for divorce and only allow communication thr attorneys, he'll get the idea eventually.

PinkButterfly66
by Emerald Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:31 PM

Then pack his stuff, sit it outside and change the locks.

Quoting Anonymous:

I asked him to leave once already b he has a place to go and me and the kids don't right now but he doesn't get im serious


Quoting PinkButterfly66:

Walk away. File for divorce and only allow communication thr attorneys, he'll get the idea eventually.


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:31 PM
I need him to be the one to technically leave b he he has a dad to go too and me and the kids will stay here for awhile


Quoting la-cosa-nostra:

Why explain? Just leave him.

brittany208
by on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:32 PM
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yes it is possible. it is also possible to do something about it. i would worry less about how youre going to explain it to him, and more about how to make you two fall back in love again. nice vacation, maybe?

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