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How can you check your own cervix for dilation? Is everyone's fingers long enough to check?
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:06 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:20 PM
Damnit I do

Quoting Anonymous:

That's a really bizarre question. Um, no I cannot, nor do I want to check my own cervix.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:21 PM
Should I have mydh check because he would know what feels normal and what doesn't
OkieOBRN
by Bronze Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:21 PM
Why exactly does every woman need trained?

Why would u consider labor nurses or OBGYNS weirdos?


Quoting Liyoness:

Every woman should be 'trained' to check her own cervix. Why would you want some weirdo with a rubber glove to introduce bacteria instead?


Quoting Robsessed98:

Unless youre trained to do it correctly, why would you even try?



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OkieOBRN
by Bronze Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:23 PM
No! Why introduce bacteria? I strongly doubt he knows what your cervix feels like.


Quoting Anonymous:

Should I have mydh check because he would know what feels normal and what doesn't

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OkieOBRN
by Bronze Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:25 PM
Or cause bleeding... or cervical edema... or rupture membranes with the head not engaged and cause a prolapse....


Quoting Anonymous:

That's dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. It's a great way to get an infection though!!

Quoting Anonymous:

To see if I'm dilated. Lmao



Quoting lovnmy3boys:

Um, why would you want to? On second thought... never mind... :)



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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:25 PM
He'll wash his hands lol it'll be ok!
That's what I'm asking you. What should he be feeling for?

Quoting OkieOBRN:

No! Why introduce bacteria? I strongly doubt he knows what your cervix feels like.




Quoting Anonymous:

Should I have mydh check because he would know what feels normal and what doesn't

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:26 PM
Can his dick do all of those things? It's longer than anyone's finger.

Quoting OkieOBRN:

Or cause bleeding... or cervical edema... or rupture membranes with the head not engaged and cause a prolapse....




Quoting Anonymous:

That's dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. It's a great way to get an infection though!!

Quoting Anonymous:

To see if I'm dilated. Lmao





Quoting lovnmy3boys:

Um, why would you want to? On second thought... never mind... :)



OkieOBRN
by Bronze Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:27 PM
Ok.. make sure there is zero dirt under his nails or around his cuticles... scrub. Then cut his nails super short..

Then... dont do it!

Do u think ur in labor?


Quoting Anonymous:

He'll wash his hands lol it'll be ok!

That's what I'm asking you. What should he be feeling for?



Quoting OkieOBRN:

No! Why introduce bacteria? I strongly doubt he knows what your cervix feels like.






Quoting Anonymous:

Should I have mydh check because he would know what feels normal and what doesn't


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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:28 PM
No haha I just wanna know if I'm dilated.

Quoting OkieOBRN:

Ok.. make sure there is zero dirt under his nails or around his cuticles... scrub. Then cut his nails super short..



Then... dont do it!



Do u think ur in labor?




Quoting Anonymous:

He'll wash his hands lol it'll be ok!


That's what I'm asking you. What should he be feeling for?





Quoting OkieOBRN:

No! Why introduce bacteria? I strongly doubt he knows what your cervix feels like.








Quoting Anonymous:

Should I have mydh check because he would know what feels normal and what doesn't


OkieOBRN
by Bronze Member on Dec. 30, 2012 at 2:31 PM
Does his dick have fingernails? Go everywhere his hands do?

When ur having sex your vaginal canal elongates to accommodate a penis.. if he is bumping your cervix it HURTS.. usually your cervix is harder to reach while aroused... and its generally posterior so he wouldnt be hitting the opening anyway...

Pregnant cervix is very vascular.. if he was pounding on it during sex you would be bleeding after a lil


Quoting Anonymous:

Can his dick do all of those things? It's longer than anyone's finger.



Quoting OkieOBRN:

Or cause bleeding... or cervical edema... or rupture membranes with the head not engaged and cause a prolapse....






Quoting Anonymous:

That's dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. It's a great way to get an infection though!!

Quoting Anonymous:

To see if I'm dilated. Lmao







Quoting lovnmy3boys:

Um, why would you want to? On second thought... never mind... :)




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