Until DD was about 4 months old, we lived in Newtown, CT. DH had moved us there for a job. When she was 4 months we moved. Fast forward 5 years: DD is in kindergarten now. If we had stayed there, chances are she would have been in that classroom. I am not trying to play on the victim's families. I was so pissed when we moved. I loved it there. I was so upset when DH was transferred to a different location across the country. Now, I'm thankful and grateful and I believe everything happens for a reason. I can't imagine losing my child like that. I know anything can happen, but it just really woke me up to be grateful for what we do have and to trust that there's a plan somewhere.