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Do you and your so

Anonymous
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Ever go out without the other one? I think its good soemtimes to go out with just friends. I don't mean like every weekend, or even once a month. But time with friends is good.

I dated a man who could not grasp this. He wanted us to do EVERYTHING together. He refused to go out w his friends unless I went. Even when I told him I didn't want to go to the shooting range, he could go, he still wouldn't go.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 31, 2012 at 9:05 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 31, 2012 at 9:22 PM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 31, 2012 at 9:31 PM
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HipLikeJunk
by Gold Member on Dec. 31, 2012 at 9:32 PM

It's healthy to have time apart. If someone refuses to do anything without you and doesn't like you to have time away either, that is a huge red flag for codependency. And that shit fucking sucks, let me tell you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 31, 2012 at 9:56 PM
Oh it was awful. One of my friends came over one day and we Hung out in the pool while he was at work and he got upset. Pft. He went bye bye really fast lol


Quoting HipLikeJunk:

It's healthy to have time apart. If someone refuses to do anything without you and doesn't like you to have time away either, that is a huge red flag for codependency. And that shit fucking sucks, let me tell you.


HipLikeJunk
by Gold Member on Dec. 31, 2012 at 9:59 PM

That's good that you didn't stay with him! 

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh it was awful. One of my friends came over one day and we Hung out in the pool while he was at work and he got upset. Pft. He went bye bye really fast lol


Quoting HipLikeJunk:

It's healthy to have time apart. If someone refuses to do anything without you and doesn't like you to have time away either, that is a huge red flag for codependency. And that shit fucking sucks, let me tell you.



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 31, 2012 at 10:00 PM

Yes, we do. Usually once a month or so. 

RMB2011
by Platinum Member on Dec. 31, 2012 at 10:03 PM
Yes we do. Maybe once or twice month? He's about to go to Detroit for a week with his guy friends.
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MixedCooke
by Platinum Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 2:10 AM

yes--he even went to a tropical island for 2 weeks by himself.

ebbierowe
by Gold Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 2:11 AM
Yup
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justinnaimee
by Platinum Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 2:11 AM
Of course we do!
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